# The Real Reason You’re Not Where You Want to Be | DailyVee ep 676

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FmLbOYyoVGc
- **Дата:** 21.05.2025
- **Длительность:** 9:33
- **Просмотры:** 25,133
- **Источник:** https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/16798

## Описание

Today's episode is DailyVee #676, a great day that started out as a guest on The OGs Podcast hosted by NBA champion Udonis Haslem, where I talked about why blaming everyone else is holding you back, and ended with a celebration at AA Mint Cards in Florida, where I met students skipping school, and a fan using VeeFriends to bond with his new stepson. Hope you enjoy!

00:00 — Here's why blaming everyone else is holding you back
00:58 — The number one mistake a parent can make
03:11 — Celebration at AA Mint Cards
04:42 — F*ck school? Missing senior awards to get Topps Chrome VeeFriends cards
06:41 — VeeFriends bringing a stepdad and stepson together
07:13 — Wrapping up the day

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### Here's why blaming everyone else is holding you back []

And that's how kids learn not mommy and daddy are going to protect you. And then you send them into the big bad real world at 22 years old and they're straight crying about everything at their job and society blaming Trump and Biden, blaming mommy and daddy, blaming the bosses and walking around being straight. Period. Clip that. What's up, legend? What's up, bro? Such a pleasure. Yeah. How you feeling? Good. Life is good. I see that. I'm proud of you, bro. You're doing a nice job. Gary V OG's at the move. I was going to censor this daily video

### The number one mistake a parent can make [0:58]

around parenting just doing that at home with me. Did a lot of talking about it in um the podcast we just went through. If you had to like pick out one or two that would directly correlate with like your view of parenting or how you or just parenting in general. Um probably he's not in the set. He's going to be in next year's set, but self-aware hair. I think parenting, you being self-aware and teaching your kids what self-awareness means, which leads me to my next one. In this set, accountable anteater is in this set. I think accountability, that's what my whole big rant was at the end. I believe the number one mistake a father or mother can do for a daughter and son in competition is let them win. And when I say number one, I mean number one. There is a very specific reason that society is now littered with children contemplating suicide. Kids anxious. Every kid talking about depression. We have overcoddled the [ __ ] out of a generation. We made these kids soft. We gave them eighth place trophies. We stopped punishing them. We stopped grounding them. When you teach a kid that winning and losing doesn't matter, it teaches indifference. Indifference means nothing matters. Nothing matters leads to my life doesn't matter. I do not understand how people do not see what is going on. This is dangerous. We [ __ ] the kids up. Stop coddling these kids. And I think we lost our way. And we I think an entire generation of parents overreacted to the hardships of their went completely and it's hard. It's hard to find that middle. But when you overcodle, it's game over. Thank you, my guy.

### Celebration at AA Mint Cards [3:11]

Yo, what up? Thank you for coming. Thank you guys so much for coming. Thank you so much. What's up? What's up? How you doing? I'm well. It's great to see you. All right. All right. Hi. How you doing, man? You know, this is You know this and I'm going to give some flowers. This is a card shop that I visit when I'm with my son on spring break. Yeah, that was so this is a go-to for us. So to me, even though I don't live down here, when I'm down here visiting my parents when they're down here, this is a local card shop for me. So probably the best part is the warm feelings. It's not like some of the rest of my tour where I've never been to the store before. I'm here for the community. For me, this was a little selfish and selfless. You know, I root for you. Thank you. You know, obviously it's a couple weeks into the launch. The product has been massively successful. Yeah. Um people are happy and um it was just nice to see some people again for the sixth time or third time and it was really nice to see some people for the first time that I've been interacting with for seven or eight years on social media. It makes every one of my appearances kind of special. Almost 20 years now I've had a public persona. Yeah. And I'm meeting people sometimes for the first time that I've talked to a hundred times over 17 years. That's incredibly special. So thank you for that opportunity. How are you? Yes, the year. I love that. We're missing our senior awards. Let's go.

### F*ck school? Missing senior awards to get Topps Chrome VeeFriends cards [4:42]

This is what matters. That's amazing. I got to get Hey man, that's Thank you so much. I'm consistent college for 50% of kids. It is if you are an entrepreneur or you're creative and not or and you collect debt cuz mommy and daddy are not going to pay for it. You cannot go to college. If nothing else, I'm consistent. That's what's up. Always. Take care. Stay well. No worries. Gary fans, Gary. Seriously. Thank you so much. We just pulled the game on. Jesus Christ. You guys are ripping, huh? Yes. I'm not going to bombard him. I will sign every card from that pack. From what about these? Nope. This pack right here. This pack. Open it right now. Black cat. Let's get a black cat. Let's go. All right. Oo. Hard trooper. It's getting signed. Go ahead. Common sense cow getting signed. I like a good common sense cow. Skilled skeleton getting signed. Sneak mine in Stevie. and a radical rabbit getting signed. It's really been rewarding and I I'm very humbled by the support and the turnout. I think parents have been really happy. I've gotten thousands. That's a lot. Yeah. In a I mean, the product's been out for a week. Um thousands of parents that are like, "Hey, I really want my kids to collect this. I like people that don't even know who Gary Vee is. " like random emails already. Just discovered this at my local card store. Kids got attracted to the packaging. We bought a pack. I turned it around. I had no idea there was such positive messages. I can get behind this. Um, so I think we got a lot of things going in our direction. My brother, I appreciate it. These friends

### VeeFriends bringing a stepdad and stepson together [6:41]

gave me a connection. I just got married. My stepson trying to find like a bonding thing. Friends here. Thank you, brother. That makes me so happy. Chad, I love you all. Hope you have the best evening. Love you all. Thank you so much. Love you guys. Stay well. Can't wait to see you. Thank you for having me for real. Thank you. Good to see you. Of course. Thank you, brother. Thank you for coming out. Thank you again for all your advice. Nice meeting you. Want me to wrap this up for real? Yeah. Let's just leave it a day hanging with

### Wrapping up the day [7:13]

people. Yeah. Let's just leave that right. You've been filming. So, you see what Stefan does, right? This is how he leads me. But he's It's true. It was really great to be with you. Missed you, bro. I'm so proud of you. Um, great to see you become such a great man. It's nice even though we [ __ ] up. Show him that part when we got scared. On time, Stefan. You forgot about that part. You got to keep me on. Me and Stefan were a little rusty on our uh communication and kind of got our uh I was on some heaters in the podcast, so [ __ ] 30 minutes away. Sucks. Clip in there. Yeah. Yeah, we're only 40 minutes late. We don't normally do that. Um, yeah, just a really good day. You know, obviously, first day back. Last week was crazy. Haven't been sick in forever, but you know, man makes plan. God laughs. I probably needed the rest. Been going so hard for the last 100 days. But great day in Florida. Felt very fresh, fully back, which feels amazing. I was super ped up to get a lot done. The three hours on a flight, I was crazy. Got three weeks worth of work done. um did a great podcast. Um and then obviously a great appearance at the store. Lots of smiley faces, lots of good vibes. Always great to reconnect with old friends like Stfan. And um I think it's a great solid daily V that will have some good stories to it. And I'm sure Stefan will post it real proper. So, hope you enjoy the episode. And now on to Nashville. You're the only guy I know that's out there pitching positivity, optimism, and love. Man, in a crazy world. really trying, you know, like I'm trying to get more people to jump on this bandwagon with me. I appreciate what you do as well. I think I think we need more people pushing love. I don't know what else to say. I think it's super lazy to push hate. Yep. I'm really not impressed by people out there spewing negativity, leaving negative comments. Like, I really I genuinely am not impressed and I'm genuinely empathetic. I feel bad for them. The concept of going around the internet and leaving comments to hurt other people's feelings is [ __ ] miserable. Yep. It's crazy.