# This Is The Only Way To Achieve Your Goals l With Jim Rome

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0poNr6MvBI
- **Дата:** 02.03.2024
- **Длительность:** 16:41
- **Просмотры:** 21,783
- **Источник:** https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/16974

## Описание

2024 is the year we stop consuming content and saying "Someday I will". The best motivators come from executing and not just saying that you will. In today's video, I have a conversation with Jim Rome where we talk about actionable ways to see progress, the Taylor Swift effect on the NFL, and getting rid of resentment. Enjoy!

Timestamps:
0:00 - 0:28 Intro
0:28 - 1:56 Cold shower or hot shower?
1:56 - 2:37 Is Vegas becoming the sports city?
2:37 - 5:30 Gary as a Jets fan
5:30 - 6:30 The Taylor Swift effect
6:03 - 9:04 How to get rid of regret and resentment
9:04 - 10:37 Consuming content vs executing
10:37 - 16:41 Football talk
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## Транскрипт

### 0:28 Intro []

I can tell you the insights right now posting on Facebook right now underrated you want to sell stuff you want to get more people aware of your show or your business Facebook but just listening to me say that right now if you don't now go to Facebook and post a video you won't get the results and we have career content consumers they read every Tony Robbins book they watch all my videos they constantly motivated but they don't do 2024 has to be the year that you actually start doing attention is the number one asset the reason I sound like I'm hyped is because I am hyped the

### 1:56 Cold shower or hot shower? [0:28]

energy here is amazing and you're going to get some more of that right now we are joined right here on the set outside the bagio by a Serial entrepreneur he is Chairman of Vader X he is the creator of V friends he is the author of meet me in the middle a v friends children's book and one day he will in fact own the New York Jets I don't know what day but I know one day he will Gary V is joining me right now Gary my brother how you feeling I'm feeling hype too brother this is nice how good is this right this is a real set You Are this is Big Boy St I'm all growed up dude listen did I see you post on the x that you were in Arkansas were you what were you doing there and how did that treat you I was in Arkansas for 4 hours I was there to see Walmart four hours in and out um Walmart's you know the reason most people are in Arkansas is because of Walmart had some nice meetings got back to New York reset and got here late last night all right so what did the reset include what did that involve how did you reset uh I changed my luggage out took a shower did some work on my phone slept for a few hours did a bunch of meetings and then flew out here cold shower or normal shower I'm like soft hot meaning like medium to hot you know that's my range are you not a cold plunge guy no I know that's the trend but like I'm not in love with it yeah mean yeah I believe in it I buy the effects I just don't do it I'm not inflamed and so I don't think I need it that's good all right so this is the first Super Bowl that Vegas has hosted I

### 2:37 Is Vegas becoming the sports city? [1:56]

know you haven't been here long but what are your early impressions of this scene and how do you feel about this as a Super Bowl City uh you know I'm a guy who's been to Vegas a bunch I've been here for big events Formula 1 was here recently even in the first kind of 24 hours that I'm here or even less I think this city is going to get a lot of Super Bowls that's my prediction I think so I think Arizona and other places should be worried this is going to go well uh I think people are going to want it here I think this is going to be a great week and I think you know I'm happy for Vegas now that you know they got all these teams here I expect baseball and basketball to be here like Vegas is becoming a very important sports city yeah know it's not a question of if but a matter of when it's already happening now you and I have spoken for years about your ultimate

### 5:30 Gary as a Jets fan [2:37]

dream of owning the New York Jets I'm going to revisit that in a moment but first did you read that skating piece in the athletic recently about how dysfunctional your beloved jets are yeah because we didn't already know that however there were some things in the peace G that we did not know did you read it and what was your reaction to it I skimmed it you know I'm so look I'm going to be very fair with your audience like I'm so blindly di hard Pro Jets like when I see that what goes to that's not you about you would not be like that about anything else though right the Jets are my number one yeah I am passionate about other things but my the Jets are number one what I mean but I want I'm sorry what I mean by that is you don't blindly look at things you look at everything you break everything open you put it back together but the Jets are different that's right it's the one place I'm delusional it's the there there's a Bizarro version of me as a Jets fan I'm not optimistic you know cuz I've been through a lot of pain but what you know it's one of those things where you can make fun of your family but if somebody else makes like when I saw that the first thing that went through my mind is I can't wait for the athletic to be out of business which will happen by the way will it will years because of that or because of where just being F media landscape like just the bottom line is look you know I also have the reason I skimmed it Jim is I'm an unfortunate place in my life now I have Viners Sports my brother and I rep athletes we rep s Gardner we rep DJ Reid I'm incredibly close to a lot of players on the team the second someone becomes a jet like a free agent that's not even going to make the team they get a DM from me immediately Welcome to New York I like so I'm on the inside enough to not overw worry about tabloid-esque headlines I'm empathetic look you know this you you're one of the icons in sports media when losing is happening things are going to get people going to say things of when you have a bad show by your standards cuz you never have an actual bad show CU you're not I have bad show you know what I mean right I do I'm good at public speaking but there's sometimes where I get off stage I'm like H that was okay you know you your producers your team like it's it's guy talk it's gal talk you talk about it and so the Jets did not have the season they wanted we four plays in our fan basee was devastated by the way did you talk about the fact that Vinnie test birie was the honorary Captain for that game and I looked at my brother and I said this feels that's not good cuz the last time the juju was off man the Mojo was off right the only other time that universally people thought the Jets could go to the Super Bowl was after the 98 AFC Championship run we loaded up in 99 and what happened in the first game of the year Vinnie Tores Achilles when Aaron sat back down I'm like oh my God he's out for the year and I told everybody in my section anyway I don't want to go too longwinded no I get it I hate the athletic and I love the Jets okay fair enough Gary ve join us fair

### 6:30 The Taylor Swift effect [5:30]

enough listen you I want you to help with this you've got football fans Gary that are suffering from Taylor Swift fatigue they're tired of hearing about her they're tired of seeing her up in the luxury Suite can you take a moment and break down the Taylor Swift effect and explain why this is such an enormous boon not only for the Chiefs but for the NFL overall there's more interest in sport there's all sorts of 13-year-old girls on Tik Tok right now breaking down football better than a bunch of my friends that have been watching it for 20 years this is where remarkable for the sport and for all the people that are crying about it they should

### 9:04 How to get rid of regret and resentment [6:03]

think about it the way I think about politics in life you do not have to consume what you don't want like if you're getting posts about it in your Instagram mute it if you see it on TV or you're listening to it change the channel you're in control of your consumption so why don't we all be big boys and instead of crying about it change the channel Gary ve joining us and if you brought that thing out I've heard you talk about this you live your entire life based on one single premise well many premises but one really critical one do not have resentment yes why is it so important not to have resentment and how do you go about avoiding resentment you know I've had a I got very lucky with the DNA game my upbringing I grew up with very little so you're very grateful and I have a lot of gratitude but as I've gotten older I realized the one thing I struggled with which is ironic Gary ve the guy who shows up here great at shooting it straight Gary vaynerchuk in real life with friends and family if I love you it's kind of hard for me to tell you what was bothering me and my great cryp tonight in a world that I feel like I've been really emotionally a Superman very lucky very fortunate parenting DNA the one thing I struggled with was being canderous to the people I cared most about speaking in generalities no problem speaking to people I love and so I realized that was leading to resentment and regret is the other one the two RS wor the one like honestly we could talk about resentment that's for all everyone out there who struggles with telling people what they actually feel that's what's going to happen to you that's a smaller subgroup the majority people watching and listening right now it's regret it's not doing what you actually wanted cuz you fear losing and you're scared to fail in front of people and most people live their life based on other people's judgment and I'm desperately trying to get them to reconsider that framework it seems to me Gary regret not only does it get you absolutely nothing it gets you worse than that it's really damaging it's really detrimental and everybody has it so what do you do with it you can't change what's already happened people keep watching that same movie over and over again what how do you get rid of regret I believe what most people are actually doing Jim is worrying about other people's opinions yeah it's just that simple I believe most people listening which is I'm one of your listeners like I Know This Crew like I just want to tell this crew High School is over you don't have to worry about your mom dude do you know Jim do you know how many people are scared to quit their job even though they hate it more than life and want to do something that they may think is silly or their boys they like gardening but they're like literally worried about their high school friends like making fun of them it's just absurd and so I'm trying to bring back old school things which is like don't worry about people's opinions learn how to save a little bit of money so maybe you can take a risk stop buying dck things to close up emotional circles all this stuff talking to Gary ve I love it it's

### 10:37 Consuming content vs executing [9:04]

all gold one more thing you said recently to an audience I thought was great and I'm going to quote you a lot of you in here think consuming this information makes you think that you're doing it I mean they care it's good but consuming it is not the same as doing it and that's coming from somebody who creates a lot of content what is the difference between consuming it and actually going out and doing it seems self-evident but lay that out I think our friendship has been based and like real admiration of our our talents about talking about stuff and I'm so fascinated you saw that I believe it's one of the more unique pieces of content I put on the last two years I was basically telling an entire crowd stop listening to me right literally to their face I'm like please yeah you did tell them to buy your book though yeah well you know I was trying to make a joke at it and by the way anybody who wants to buy my upcoming books I'm thrilled I'm entrepreneur no but but real talk back to like what I'm trying to set up for your audience cuz I love them is look you can read about push-ups and watch people on the internet doing them but if you don't do them the thing's not going to happen all these people that consume motivation and I can tell you the insights right now like posting on Facebook right now underrated you want to sell stuff you want to get more people aware of your show or your business Facebook but just listening to me say that right now if you don't now go to Facebook and post a video you won't get the results and we have career content consumers they read every Tony Robbins book they watch all my videos they're they constantly motivated but they don't do 2024 has to be the year that you actually start doing Gary ve joining me for a few more moments so

### 16:41 Football talk [10:37]

Gary as you wait for the opportunity to open up for you to actually buy the Jets hey by the way is there a process is there a system that you have in place or is this a war of attrition are you going to stay ready and then just pounce when it happens what is the plan the plan is to emotionally talk to myself every day knowing that there's a 99. 9999% chance that it won't happen the real plan there's only two plans one work everyday hard to get to the financial place that even gives me a shot two be emotionally prepared that timing may not align well tomorrow if the Johnson's put it up I'm not ready to buy H do I think some trillionaire may want me to come in for a little piece cuz they it's so known how much maybe if she or he thinks that's right but I'm going to need would that be enough for you probably not no I don't think i' I'd be disappointed but I'm also not in control and this is the point that I'm actually telling you and this is the key that I want everybody he you can have goals and dreams but sometimes life plays out a different way so I'm emotionally preparing for it not to happen while trying to make it happen um financially and operationally trying to continue to build these big businesses and you know listen if here's the best part if I pull it off I will 100% win a Super Bowl and the sheer love from fellow Jet fans is far more interesting to me than anything else because it is scary how much I love fellow jet bands and more importantly how much I hate all 31 other teams I love that good that's should that's the way it should be these people that have like my NFC I had I heard it the other day they're like my NFC team is I'm like what are you talking about well by the way you can appreciate this their favorite team in fact is not the team they grew up with their favorite team is their fantasy team that's fair and I respect that I understand how Everyone likes the thing I can deal with you know what I can't deal with is all these random Chief fans that now exist who were you know random Patriot fans four years ago we must really focus on destroying bandwagon fans they're terrible their atrocity to the fandom they destroy everything this is about bandwagon fans are the worst all of a sudden miraculously I see no one wearing Patriot jerseys you don't like fake dude you're not about fake is bad fake bad fake is bad like just be a f fake kills right I don't see any Patriot jerseys in Vegas this weekend where where' you all go they won like three games this year the fact that bill bel's last game was a patriot coach is a loss to the New York Jets is one of the most delicious things that has ever happened in my life tell how tasty is that how delicious is that in your life Bill hates the Jets so much which like do you understand that bill bich is dangerously close to being exposed he's lucky he didn't get a job I believe Bill would be better suited to never have a job again because his legacy would be more intact because if he gets another job and has three or four more seasons without a playoff run this man has one playoff win in nine Seasons without Tom Brady Gary listen man you said best yourself you won the DNA Lottery you're one of the brightest people I know dude you're starting to sound like a smart caller to a Sports Talk Radio Show do you really believe that yes or do you hate him because he's a pat yes okay I thought but data listen I understand how I'm sounding I'm not trying to come with emotion I'm data we have eight seasons where he did not have Tom Brady you're not wrong you're not and he has one playoff win he has one more playoff win than you and I exactly that is interesting data if you want to be the greatest of all time right this gets into Larry Brown versus Phil Jackson territory this is it's an interesting debate I understand you come out I love Larry Brown one of the great teachers of the sport I love him period I think listen when you only is there a butt or period no there's both when you only coach Michael Jordan and Kobe and sha together I'm struggling to just blindly say Phil Jackson who's a great Nick so I love him and he's a great character so I like that but I'm I struggle and I think Bill bich sits in a very dangerous place in his legacy if he decides to coach for three or four more years I believe that to be true now on the flip side Mike Tomlin I was always like uh and then you see how well he his teams perform even with bad quarterbacks and things of that nature so I just think we need to see a little bit more from Bill to be blindly that he's the best coach of all time do you know okay it's fair you know what really interesting before you go the Steeler fans hate Mike Tomlin now as much as you hate everybody else who's not a jet it's crazy to me but steel fans Steeler fans are in Pittsburgh Steeler fans are a bunch of entitled dofs that's why they hate him don't pick up your phone my man Steeler fans you're entitled as if you just deserve to go to the Super Bowl every year you're entitled take it from a Jets fan who you so lucky you are so lucky to be a Steelers fan you're not lucky that you live in Pittsburgh but you're lucky that you're a Steelers fan you can live wherever you want can't you well they do cuz Steelers have tons of bandwagon fans cu cuz they win all the time right Steeler fans piss me off Jim dude how about bandwagon fans do they piss you off too IID Steeler bandwagon fans you're not allow you're not allowed to live in Florida and be a Steelers fan and then claim like my great-grandfather used to watch him in the 70s bandwagon be a Tampa I wish we could do this for three hours Gary I appreciate you so much I'm so glad I love you I'm so glad we could come together and do that man always the best show you're the best brother