# Here's where UNHAPPINESS begins...

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSR7_WM6PM4
- **Дата:** 18.03.2022
- **Длительность:** 4:38
- **Просмотры:** 146,065
- **Источник:** https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/17425

## Описание

I think that if you make everything your fault (without beating yourself up, of course), then you are also the person with the power to change things around.

When you hold yourself accountable, it leads to solutions; it helps you maintain a position of control instead of being a victim. So many of you right now – in this exact second – are unhappy because you’re pointing fingers and feeling a lack of control.

The lack of accountability leads to so much worse. If we can prop up accountability instead of shying away from it, we will be happier.

— #garyvee #garyvaynerchuk #accountability

Thanks for watching!
Join My Discord!: https://www.garyvee.com/discord
Check out another series on my channel:
Keynotes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vCDlmhRmBo&list=PLfA33-E9P7FCEF1izpctGGoak841XYzrJ
NFTs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AwMJ6bScB2s&list=PLfA33-E9P7FAcvsVSFqzSuJhHu3SkW2Ma
Business Meetings: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wILI_VV6z4Y&list=PLfA33-E9P7FCTIY62wkqZ-E1cwpc2hxBJ
Gary V

## Транскрипт

### Segment 1 (00:00 - 04:00) []

one of the biggest issues of unhappiness in 2022 in america and beyond is the complete and utter lack of accountability i'm passionate about accountability i think the unbelievable vulnerability in our ecosystem right now is people not being accountable for themselves we are now in the finger-pointing generation it's your fault it's their fault this institution's fault it's this human being's fault people think technology's changing us i think it's exposing us this thing is your gateway to get out of the thing that you complain about but people would rather complain about how it is than put in the work when you go into blame game you are vulnerable people would rather default into why they can't than putting in the actions that allow them to can i am remarkably stunned by the lack of accountability in our society do you know how liberating it is when you realize everything's your fault it gets real [ __ ] good out here something i've been thinking a lot about is i'm asking people to be more accountable but i have to be careful because a lot of people's version of intaking accountability is beating themselves up just stop judging yourself everybody else is doing it for you already everybody just wants to point fingers 24 [ __ ] hours a day and tell you why everybody else is doing things wrong the system that person this just [ __ ] firing fingers 24 7 without a thumb and a mirror ever figure out what your [ __ ] thing is and stop making [ __ ] excuses i just want it so bad for you i want it bad for you zero accountability it has been completely eliminated we must put accountability on a pedestal if you're like well gary [ __ ] you i grew up in a family that was very pessimistic and this is what it is well then what do you want then go to therapy right like do something fight for it fight to be happy listen to positive [ __ ] that's a funny game miraculous thing happens when you cut out your most pessimistic friend you become more optimistic news alert you're deciding what life actually is it is your subjective call this is a game of perspective i don't understand how we don't understand that there's a very big difference between i'm accountable and it's my fault and i suck i'm a piece of [ __ ] it's perspective you know i think about world war ii i think about so many genocides i think about the people and the millions of people around the world that don't have clean water every day i'm not capable of dwelling because of you know gratitude accountability you know like what am i gonna do about it and perspective and so i'm what do i say we should be thankful that we can even have this conversation health over everything and uh just perspective man it's just perspective my friends do you know how rare it is to have a life the odds right now currently that science accepts for the odds of actually being alive is 400 trillion one life baby one life one lack of accountability this is the key to the whole thing the mindset of accountability is what makes you win makes you happy whether it's true or not got it the thought of taking on responsibility for everything that's not working is the win whether you're right or wrong you