# The Life-Changing Advice Teenagers Don't Know They Need

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GC6Aq1KajJ0
- **Дата:** 24.03.2020
- **Длительность:** 20:18
- **Просмотры:** 66,496
- **Источник:** https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/17701

## Описание

During a recent live-stream session, Gary got a question from a young adult about pursuing his passion and staying involved with the family business. After getting more context on the situation, Gary had a lot of very inspirational advice that will bring you all a ton of value, regardless of age. They talk about time management, gratitude, giving back and more so there is something here for everyone. Watch this one to the very end and enjoy it!
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### Segment 1 (00:00 - 05:00) []

look and look you're so [ __ ] lucky most people that are watching right now have to do it for a boss they don't know the greatest thing that ever happened to me is the memories of people and she's with my dad you know like I you know it's crazy that I get to have those memories one day my dad's gonna be gone and I'm gonna be so happy about those hours I put in those war stories you understand so my question is basically I have grown up with some great just to give you context great parents immigrants from Mexico and they became citizens my dad when he was like 20 and my mom when she was younger and basically they raised us there is me my sister really well but I felt like from my dad's side and he did a great job of structuring stuff and making sure I have a good work that they can stuff of God but for my mom side I felt very like if life had to be a lot of fun all the time and that created yakeen I can't really hear you I can hear I'm listening it's very interesting that he put an emphasis that life has to be fun my mom did yeah actually she put a big emphasis that their life had like basically that every moment I couldn't be sad that stuff I'd be finding and we never really complained in the house you think that but what's happened is there's been a and I've kind of gotten out of this cuz I started watching a content a couple months ago but basically I got to a point where my dad took away my allowance and I felt like I deserved it okay yeah you know what I mean getting it I was like when did this happen this happened maybe year-and-a-half ago maybe how old are you if not a year ago I'm 18 don't ya and basically wait it got me feeling wearing now I was like well you know I'm just going to figure stuff out now just whatever and my Lance wasn't that big or anything but it just felt like there maybe happened like two years ago I don't know but um you thought that they were taking advantage of you that you entitled to it that there was some [ __ ] yeah I felt a little bit like wow these are my they're my parents like they should be hooking it up a little bit you know what I mean and it was crazy because what did he say he said you're grown ask me now stop no more allowance basically this video and I like him even more now no he's great he's a great dad but there's a time there was a time when he was the like what we call him and maoli la película which basically means a bad guy he's a bad guy one point because you know with my mom it was all fun and whatever and that's common yep and but now man I respect him so much because start watching content and started realizing that I was entitled and I was like what the heck because that was it wasn't only the allowance thing but several other little stuff and he just it's sorry to liberate me but now I'm at the point where I'm starting to work for him cuz you know school got shut down and not stuff and also my schedule is pretty loose because I'm a senior in high school and so I go to school for like the first half of the day and then I'll go work for him the second half from like 12 before what does he do where you are an electrical company things an electrician in now attrition for 28 years so that's where I'm going into and but anyways to get to the actual question I'm sorry no work consistently like a 20 hour work week soon to be 40 after I graduated and sometimes I find myself during the week like there's days where I love it and I'm having a good time in whatever and there's days that I won't write and I kind of feel like I'd rather stay home and play on my drum set because that's something that I realize that kind of like to do you have time to do you only and that's man this is what I want to talk to you because I was like man I just don't know I'm like you talk about diving into your passions and stuff but I'm like I want also provide a support for a future family what you know but then it's like you say that not everyone's life is gonna be like yours and that we can have the work-life balance if we want it and so oh so first of all back to like when I

### Segment 2 (05:00 - 10:00) [5:00]

think about ingredients like you have so many good ingredients like I love your perspective 4818 I like the thoughtfulness I love that you're over the hump on entitlement I am obsessed with the admiration and respect you have towards your parents you remind me a lot of me at 18 right now because I just had a lot of that I think the one thing that I was able to do was I worked a lot more than you did and still thought I did have time to look at my baseball cards play Genesis like I think that my work ethic might have been more on point than yours is to be free no Evan trip taking hours of work and in that 20 hours you're like damn I wish I was on my drum set and like [ __ ] you could be on your juice hours and even soon to be 40 hours I laughed in my head on some real [ __ ] is it 40 like 40 years I was 85 90 like real [ __ ] hours and yeah look if you're gonna work 40 you have a ton of [ __ ] time to [ __ ] bang on your [ __ ] drums you know and try side hustles and hang out with friends and live your life sorties nothing mm-hmm it's nothing and and what I mean by that is you're in a great spot because you have this like if you're talking an 18 about future family you've got that [ __ ] in your soul which loves like what you say you have that immigrant practicality ya mean you're sold mostly teen year-olds don't think about providing for a future family so I'm glad in that practical place a bro on some real [ __ ] forties nothing like yeah Woody's nothing like III don't even know how to explain it to you like I feel like you have an ability to eat like have some grit and eat some crow and pay your dues yeah I've got good news for you if it's really 40 you got off easy family this second-generation like that [ __ ] usually looks more like 67 82 like if you're a great have tons of time between 18 and 32 put in to your side hustle of starting a YouTube channel around drums to hang out to like I mean [ __ ] 40 are you [ __ ] kidding me you [ __ ] hit the lottery if it's 40 my Friday Saturday my Thursday Friday and Saturday of every summer day and since I was 14 was forty seven to eight he had 13 hours times three like [ __ ] 40 you're [ __ ] set I'm real happy for you because I think you're gonna be able to check every box help the family business help yourself make some money but you still have a hundred [ __ ] hours in a week to [ __ ] sleep spend time with friends and do your side hustle you're fortunate now here's what I don't want no cabin and it's like right now I feel good and I have that drive but what do I do when tomorrow I feel that like man that was great with Gary yesterday right now you know we're back to it and it's like cool and then the next week slowly progresses down high right now tomorrow you go hard but then in two weeks you're back to that place with two hours into the day of electronically like [ __ ] I wish it so listen this is what being a man and an operator in life is about learning how to get comfortable with the uncomfortable is there you know what I mean brother yeah we're gonna get comfortable with the uncomfortable you said learning to like well in that zone at 11 a. m. in you know on July 19th when you're like [ __ ] man I wish I was home playing drums or I wish I was with my boy Salvatore right now learning to get over that hump is very required right like that isn't people are you know we are so lucky we're so lucky that a lot of people don't want to get a relationship with being uncomfortable they just want everything to be awesome is like it's such macro entitlement as if everyone's life should always be awesome at all times I don't this is you know don't create this narrative in your mind of blaming your mom that everything has to be happy is why you're incapable yeah that's not your mom trying to make positives out of negatives that's you our [ __ ] so lucky that you had such great parents that provide a dream that you are not in a place yet where you're like you're starting this incredible process of getting out of entitlement and I'm proud of you mm-hmm so now what you need to do is kinda like working out it's like kind of that extra 10 pounds

### Segment 3 (10:00 - 15:00) [10:00]

on the wheel this summer I'll get those Reds get those reps that's exactly right man I love that you understand like every time you read 11:30 in the morning and somebody yells at you at the job and you like [ __ ] man I could just be home playing xbox every time you do that you go into my [ __ ] parents immigrated to America when they were my age they were [ __ ] scared shitless of making it in America they didn't have a [ __ ] pot to piss in and I'm sitting here complaining about a [ __ ] family business that my dad create on his [ __ ] back that I can go to gratitude mm-hmm I just gotta train it because because the main thing that was confusing me is I was like I don't know like cuz you talk about you know if you don't like going or whatever then you shouldn't be doing that but the thing was that I was doing it something that I was liking it sometimes they're not like another time so that I was like you know what what's to do here but you just man you hit me with the unmarked yeah so real because what's funny about that it's like look unhappiness is not is something people should do but to your point and this is why I love doing QA when I say don't do something that you don't loved I don't mean don't do something you don't love for an hour I mean don't let that be your 80 year career yeah like that's real to me I also say eat [ __ ] and like I believe in eating [ __ ] like we just talked about it in detail here 11:30 July 19th you know Miguel on the job yells at you and says that kid you [ __ ] idiot you know like yeah like that's the moment you take a step back and you think about this conversation and you're like right when my dad was my age when your dad was 18 17 or 18 or 17 I'm 18 when the dad was 18 tell me exactly what he was doing if you know he was hustling doing he was installing like video game machines in Mexican what's it called like not really bars but more just like kind of convenience stores he would go into I'll tell you sir real quick he would go into the store and told the owners be like hey you mind if I only sell these things for you here and there but no I don't want any little toys or anything and then he back here let me leave him here for a day and then I'll come back tomorrow and pick him up and if you still don't want him you know and then basically he would leave him there a bunch of kids would come play on them and buy stuff from the store and then the store owner should be like oh [ __ ] okay I won yep bro your dad was grinding mmm your dad didn't love installing [ __ ] video games and [ __ ] creams and [ __ ] you know but like drunk you have your whole life in front of you you absolutely need to build a relation on was kept under 30 in America yeah he needs to find a relationship with adversity and getting comfortable with eating [ __ ] and I think it'd be a great summer for you to like learn that and you know 40 thing is huge to me I'm so I'm bro when I wouldn't explain to you how lucky I think you are Ford the whole [ __ ] rest of the week 90% if it's really 40 is it gonna be really 40 which is great yeah he said 40 to 50 he said 40 or 50 if you wanted to want an bro listen man let me tell you something I thought I was the hardest working person I knew when I was 28 years old running wine library [ __ ] worked all day you know 8 a. m. to [ __ ] 8 p. m. every day that was soft compared to Who I am now at 44 I go harder stronger smarter this is about [ __ ] reps and gaining muscles right your you got your stocky dude I'm looking at you right now you know that if you worked out like a [ __ ] maniac for a year eight right lifted weights you'd be a [ __ ] monster cuz you've got that build you know that I had mentally I had that [ __ ] built mentally but it was some [ __ ] reps for you that may be [ __ ] completely unstoppable look at this like you're going into training forty hours a day to [ __ ] put calluses on your [ __ ] hands [ __ ] crate thickness to your skin to your [ __ ] dome you're crazy go understand this is you're going to training yes you need to be like Rocky and [ __ ] rocky this is about going in the snow like go into this like holy [ __ ] I'm so lucky that I get to go into training I'm gonna get paid to try [ __ ] trained how to be a [ __ ] mental assassin for the rest of my life your watch yeah that's so really yeah bro and you get to do with your dad [ __ ] look you're so [ __ ] lucky most people that are watching right now have to do it for a boss they don't know the greatest thing that ever happened to me is the memories of beaches with my

### Segment 4 (15:00 - 20:00) [15:00]

dad you know like I you know it's crazy that I get to have those memories one day my dad's gonna be gone and I'm gonna be so happy about those hours I put in those war stories you understand yeah I'm crying because I'm happy because I'm this is I was on the fence and I didn't want to leave because I liked the electrical but I didn't want to leave to try to get a job in drumming right because I was like I like both I like working with my dad and so this this was really the unlock for me you know that's why that's what I'm feelin a man hours a week drumming YouTube channel you can [ __ ] lookin drumming come you can work at and drumming company at night 4000 K create gigs yeah [ __ ] you have so much time and you're gonna gain a strength yeah that's so real of like just being good at being uncomfortable in being like hey you know this is kind of boring but I'm gonna get through it because you know my family built this and you know I'm so grateful for the opportunity to even have that because a lot of people my age coming out of high school don't know what they want to do don't have a job right and you're gonna learn a skill you're gonna learn how to interact with grown-ass men customers that are upset you're gonna watch your dad versity you're gonna learn you're getting an education a training and you're gonna get paid you should be paying your dad yeah oh man Oh grateful that I decided that when I was I realized that 22 that I had it and I decided instead of go and build something for myself because I could I knew the Internet I knew the [ __ ] in I knew the hustle I [ __ ] knew it I was making $500 $1,000 when I was 13 I was 22 I was a grown-ass man I didn't need to go into my dad's business for me I needed emotional I wanted to give back because I knew I could and I knew I was gonna learn a lot of stuff and I was gonna enjoy it the memories and I was gonna put my dad on and it's the best 12 years of my career did it feel great to be 34 and not own anything of a business world you know no did it feel great to not have a lot of money because in a family business you really never pay yourself that much you know if I was an executive 360 million I've been paid a million a year but was you know but those memories with my dad and doing something that giving back to my parents who came to this country with nothing and the foundation that I stand on that's something I'll never regret and you're gonna have that opportunity I [ __ ] only did 40 hours a week I would probably started a Facebook card starting lineups eBay flipping business on the side too and gotten doubled you know like happy so like yeah you really have a good bro and it's so crazy that you say that because of the fact that like nearly only like a week and a half ago I told my mom and I just talked with her and I was like man I'm so grateful for you guys because it's cuz I just got I just felt this gratitude wave of like man so right hope I just didn't know how to apply it to the work thing because I was confused on like whether or not you know but man it's it's all about the perspective of like man when I'm older I'm gonna be able to look back and say I got to work with my dad I got to do the 40 hours like you said and I can still do my other stuff and let me see you could go 80 hours for seven years and [ __ ] be 25 and young as [ __ ] I'd put both my arms off right now to be 25 you know 90 hours a week do no drums and bounce out of there as a [ __ ] child still a child mm-hmm you have everything you have your perspective and maturity at 18 any of your whole life in front of you got a hundred more years of life you're gonna look for a hundred more years bro oh it's a real [ __ ] you're a part of that lucky generation you're gonna live to 180 no I believe that I can see that it's at least a hundred a hundred eighteen you gonna live a hundred more listening you will never ever regret working 40 to 50 hours a week with your dad for the next for a long period of time I promise you that I rarely be that I'm rarely that definitive but I've spent enough time with you right now to know that to be true you've got too much of that soul and gratitude towards your parents any kid who's watching right now who is grateful and loves her parents for what they did for them should go into the family business because even if

### Segment 5 (20:00 - 20:00) [20:00]

it's a you'll always be happy that you paid back a little bit to the thing that put you on