# Imagine The Most Important Person to You Was Gone Tomorrow | DailyVee 577

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b0P8tlc2Xe4
- **Дата:** 14.09.2019
- **Длительность:** 12:42
- **Просмотры:** 155,952
- **Источник:** https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/17825

## Описание

YOUR OUTLOOK ON EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT. DON'T LET SMALL MICRO LOSSES GET THE BEST OF YOU AS IF THEY WERE SOMETHING SERIOUS LIKE THE DEATH OF A LOVED ONE. REALIZE THAT ALMOST EVERYTHING "BAD", BESIDES DEATH,  THAT HAS HAPPENED IS REVERSIBLE OR CAN BE FIXED.
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### Segment 1 (00:00 - 05:00) []

I mean it's so much more like easier to say like oh it's just perspective but like on the daily when things are happening and I know you're middle of doing something I'll say for your business who do you love the most in the world my family good who in your family pick one you're very politically correct cool every day make book in the midden like literally once a day genuinely sit there for five minutes and make pretend one of them got shot in the face I'm being dead serious with you every single day I almost I said this today earlier I probably once a week to four times a week sit there coolly in the shower on a flight when I wake up some people meditate right some people work out right to deal with whatever anxieties or thoughts have I actually sit and coolly try to convince myself that I have lost one of the five most important people in my life and that is the biggest thing I do that leads to the biggest happiness I have like what you sell enough earrings today like seriously though people lack perspective it's actually remarkably easy if it became if it becomes the way you see the world like what like we have completely lost perspective as a society do many people on earth have it way worse than you billions I have one question yep ask you and first of all thank you on the same basis of him for giving me a framework to life and also making me feel not crazy with how much time I wanted to spend on my music and what not what you know it's really crazy to me just says how I heard that I actually think there's nothing the four of you could be doing that's crazy given how old you are I really [ __ ] believe that I actually think nothing anybody does under 35 is crazy I think it's practical to scratch every itch early on because you don't have any rationale or reason to create restrictions for yourself like family and financial debt outside of Cup that's why I hate college that I think it eliminates your freedom you know if you have a child or you buy something you limit yourself or you have a partner like it's like you store like there's three variables that can start pulling from a place where you can't be a hundred percent selfish around your happiness graph which is you have to have empathy for your partner you have the parent or you have to pay a bill what are some of your daily habits that you do daily to keep you as on point and make pretend that my family dies you make pretend that your family dies there's something I do maybe not every day but comes through my head pretty often if you ask me why on me it's because every day every other day no shorter than minimum once every four days I will roleplay in my mind the tragic death of somebody in my inner family really okay and what do you do with that information what I is I use it as the framework to keep everything in perspective it's really easy for me to be okay with the three bad news things that I got today about lost revenue at Vayner when yesterday I made pretend that a tree landed on my dad's head and killed him I'm being serious I know it's back to ice a different [ __ ] I really mean what I'm talking about and because I'm good with feeling feelings with myself it really works because I get really sad and scared and I really don't want that to happen and then I'm super thankful that didn't happen and everything else is you know one of my best friends lost his father last night really liked it and he's really sad and all the [ __ ] we've been talking about for the last year around business and other things just miraculously didn't matter at all for last three months that he's been in hospital every day and every second just doesn't [ __ ] matter so if that's what we all do when it happens why not live like that when it doesn't happen there's no question that I am much happier than the majority of the universe because of perspective and it is completely predicated on the singular variable of health of the people I love

### Segment 2 (05:00 - 10:00) [5:00]

how are you good and are you good we're doing well what's your question hi like third podcasted miss on my talking about my community and the local businesses okay there's one that's possible it is do you live in America I live in that okay I'm watching good the answer is it's possible okay so should I just like start with like yep yes Alex let me ask you a question are you looking for affirmation are you help me help you like the intro are you asking if it's a good idea like tell me what you're doing here right now the answer is yeah how old are you 25 awesome and you're doing this because you want to be an entrepreneur and you've heard me or others talk about podcasts /local and you putting the pieces together and you're like you can see a world where you're interviewing local businesses or people like you feel good about that yeah I think that'd be great to get like local businesses that we have out there good and and is your concern that it's too narrow and you might not get enough ad revenue and then thus it at some point won't eat yeah so let me give you an answer the answer is yes now that I've asked those questions here's why one you need the experience and thinking about it is never better than doing it doing always beats thinking yeah the end I mean our phone call was almost you know luckily I was in the mood but there was a part of me that was like halfway home to just hanging up on you because it's a good way just being yes and that's it to make a point for the audience and to you we're sticking out and being a little calmer today but like it's yes do it bro just do it like I don't I mean you're in [ __ ] Nike country just do it you're the Pacific Northwest you guys understand that [ __ ] motto just [ __ ] make like all this overthinking like I'm just so tired of everybody overthinking whether it was the best use of your time or not actually doing it is better like people spend so much time debating that even if they would have done the wrong thing they still had more time on their hand I like doing and finding out I'm wrong and still saving time everyone so values their time or they're so insecure about people judging their decision that they will [ __ ] make I don't I want people to love their game the way I love it not get the accolades or success that I have because the happiness is way more fun than a byproduct and I know a ton of people who are unbelievably happy and make forty nine thousand a year and I know an enormous amount of people who are deeply unhappy and sick who make seven million dollars a year and something I've been saying a lot and I want to see more often there was always that joke that people talked about like around always valuing money and they talked about I'd rather cry in my Ferrari right and I that that's saying always pissed me off right this notion that okay you're crying you're deeply unhappy and the Ferrari versus a Toyota is supposed to be some sort of variable there it's such insane bad talk everybody should aspire to be smiling in their Toyota if you find out and understand yourself and you put yourself in the best position and you happen to have talent and you put in a ridiculous amount of work then you might be able to smile in your Ferrari and that's amazing too but these are the things that are running through my head and I appreciate you having a written tonight thank you I've been hanging out with a hundred Booga I know you know what's that all about keep going brow for night is long-term and it's not the skills you learn on for tonight will be applicable to other things keep going thank you see you soon sure Pasquale we're taking a bud okay so I'm in college right now in June Eric yes on what on YouTube Wow yeah and 100 of college well you'll have another year right a year and a half I don't know two years you just started you should quit you

### Segment 3 (10:00 - 12:00) [10:00]

have to live your life that's true you don't want to end up resenting them that makes sense like there's two things the most common things when somebody can't find their passion is one they're over putting pressure on finding their passion and it becomes like this convoluted [ __ ] whole thing and two they just haven't tried enough [ __ ] have you ever tried to cook a gourmet meal like you know and I could probably sit here for the rest of my life and give you eight like people you know it's so heady but like there's tasting [ __ ] that I call tasting [ __ ] which is that like literally saving up 180 bucks going and buy and [ __ ] like expensive [ __ ] food and try and like make it and also you're like oh [ __ ] I'm a chef like the biggest thing is people don't do [ __ ] they stay in such a lane or they make it so heady you know you need me right yes cool man listen keep me updated on it I love the drys email Twitter's real good tried me going to time saver [ __ ] up two times they [ __ ] enough with and you got a patriot logo unacceptable see missing alright bye guys thank you I also love gemstones crystals and whatnot you need a tourmaline what's a tourmaline what it does is it looks like a piece of coal but when you put it in your pocket all the negative energy that goes to you the stone pushes back against them but I'm doing that naturally what's it called a Toma know what tourmaline I might be a human tourmaline let's say I'll get one but I'm gonna give you a real preview I'll send you one I will take it and now I'm gonna give you the preview thank you no let me give it to you okay I will 100% lose it within 48 hours