# Do You Wake Up Happy Every Day? | DailyVee 567

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w
- **Дата:** 13.08.2019
- **Длительность:** 16:21
- **Просмотры:** 171,059

## Описание

Gary was very busy during his recent trip to Columbus, Ohio. He did a keynote and Q&A at SkySprout, met up with NBA player Greg Oden, Did a quick podcast session with David Meltzer, and chopped it up with a bunch of fans... Enjoy!
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## Содержание

### [0:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w) Intro

very simply we have to make happiness the North Star we have to because the framework of all of us over the last hundred years is success and even worse things you hadn't even debated like being unhappy is a bad idea and if that unhappiness is predicated on because it's the business that's paying your bills you need to figure out how to change your bills sell your [ __ ] home like downsize your car like take one less vacation stop keeping up with the [ __ ] Joneses Twitter what up hang with Nora from

### [1:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w&t=60s) Call from Nora

empathy whines here in Ohio we're chatting and we decided that some of you were just still not past the finish line and so Nora is ready to literally call you and explain to you why it's time to subscribe to Anthony once that was really good I mean I

### [1:20](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w&t=80s) Dealing with negativity

thrive off of bad comments like you just use any negativity to just keep fighting through yeah actually it's less of like that it's just more of empathy like that person doesn't have enough context to have a statement that matters enough both pro and con it's the same reason that I don't get too high I'm not in some private room right now not talking to anybody like the accolades feel the same way as the hate so it just keeps it super balanced got it and 20 people love the accolades but don't want to deal with the hate which makes them and then they keep buying into the accolades and they think there's somebody which that means the hate drives them down even more the more you are driven down by hate is the more that you read the press clippings of the good [ __ ] that you've been told I just keep it right down the [ __ ] middle this is great stuff huh d-roc I'm like

### [2:12](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w&t=132s) Rock beings

so pumped you rock beings just like watching him film something just now on the phone and then just watching him editing the 2009 video like I'm literally at my happiest I've been in a long time I think what do you mean access story that things like that right there on your story yeah do it okay or do you want me to know my account to your phone and let's go you should have every one of my social accounts like snap to for that matter let's go so when

### [2:42](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w&t=162s) No one cares

I was in Hong Kong it really struck me this woman came up to me and said I appreciate everything done you changed my life I was too seriously depressed but I have to tell you I watched one garyvee video save my life and I said oh what did what which one was it taste she said and you really resonated me because it's what you say and how you say it was simply if you're depressed no one [ __ ] cares do something about it right it's you but it's the hardest message you know the reason 25 percent of people don't like me on first impact or have to go through how many people here when they first consume he didn't like me raise it high race and I it's fine I just want to give the context one more time I just want to say it yeah like it makes sense because when you're willing to go somewhere at your own expense in the short term but you know it's right we all have that I have my same versions we all have a button we all and so it makes sense to me and I don't like it like I can be more popular have more fun but it makes sense to me because there's a lot of truth at the IPPS I mean especially in the climate we live in America today it's not fun to say things like nobody cares because we're trying to figure out how to collectively care but the reality is if you believe that somebody else is in charge you're already in trouble you're gonna be in a bad place doesn't mean that there isn't racism doesn't mean that you if you have a [ __ ] up mom you're gonna have some stuff doesn't mean that there isn't gender issue it doesn't mean there isn't problems but if that's your framework you know look I you know I think people heard me say this I think the person that's the most [ __ ] on earth is a trust-fund baby number one person I'm grateful that I didn't pop out of the womb as was somebody who came into five hundred million dollars in a trust fund from parents that had made it because you've lost to society before you've started but the one that I think we're gonna involve into is mental privilege if you're born with the mental capacity to be happy or have the right perspective on life or understand half glass full like that's why people that look like they shouldn't win all the time they got they were they their privilege was mentality and perspective and so I'm spending a lot of time thinking about that but you can't see that we can all look at each other and see what everybody looks like you're I have no idea if you're grounded as [ __ ] like I am behind your facade that's the ultimate [ __ ] privilege

### [5:11](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w&t=311s) Sharing your deepest shit

privilege and then sit down hello for me and for the audience I know for a lot of people out here they have amazing stories to share but sometimes it's really hard to share their most vulnerable things in life and I was just wondering if you can give me a tip to overcome that fear the acknowledgement of it I think the thing that I've come to realize in the last four to five years has become a bigger theme is everybody's biggest beautiful secret right this second is the jail of their happiness a hundred percent you know but a lot of people don't even realize that's happening they think that's protecting them and so this becomes a monster game of judgment and I don't have a tip I what I'm trying to do is bring awareness to it right like if you study how we've eliminated stigmas in our society it's by bringing awareness to it and that's what I think a lot about what I hear that question you know I just when I'm with the closest people or if it's one-on-one I just always ask them like what I'm usually it's only four to five people that they're worried about like they don't love the judgement of Sally pants 89 they really don't like the judgement of friends and acquaintances but the reality is the reason they're not sharing their deepest [ __ ] is it usually involves a four or five persons in their life yeah I think for me the hardest part is you know I have a massive scar and a lot of people sometimes worry what they think and me being very fit when I was just you know that's a day yeah it's very hard to share some of that you know share my actual particle I you know what do you think about this do you remember like in high school when you had a zit like you thought about that [ __ ] heavy the reality is nobody gave a [ __ ] because they had their own [ __ ] zip and that's how I think about all this [ __ ] like I think people are gonna be people would be flabbergasted by how nobody really gives a [ __ ] what makes it super easy for me with all the you know attention I have is ultimately I know you don't give a [ __ ] you can't it's not your fault you have to worry about yourself we watched some of the most iconic people look at the society we live in now iconic people that have brought so much value in whatever they do pass away they trend on Twitter for four hours they get a little love maybe on Instagram posts and the next day everybody moves on with their life that's liberating nobody gives a [ __ ] about the scar on your stomach bro because we have our own scars in different ways that's my answer to why it's so easy you're welcome

### [8:07](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w&t=487s) The Holy Grail

thanks for standing up thanks brother I did it more for the for everybody else man you know I'm starting to share it thank you brother listen I will do drama you guys seem gas station there I believe that I believe it makes sense I probably don't have the same amount of healthy feared respected everyone else here does understood but so do every sense like a lot of life plot twists with my graduating recently do you like it I do I like great oh I mean if you're lucky enough like there is no greatest gift greater gift and liking and being good like liking something and being good at it is like that's the that's how I have my life like that's a great like literally like that's the Holy Grail yeah I think the thing that you need to do as this young of an age is not overthinking go all-in and then if you wake up in 36 months and say I don't like it like pulling sales like if you intuitively are in a place with that answer of like I like it and I'm good at it you should go all-in you mean selling wise a hundred percent hey listen to me take less money selling something you believe in cuz you're so [ __ ] young and time is your friend kids don't feel that way because they want to prove it I get it but it's the truth it's God here's why that will always be there for you can do that in four years and still be young as [ __ ] right now go sell [ __ ] the thing that you [ __ ] are most on fire about because then you're into it you're selling into selling and [ __ ] like it now you can really get ridiculous results please sir

### [10:02](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w&t=602s) Business Motivations

because I know I have a story to tell I just wanted to know how with somebody like myself get to that business motivations here's what I would say don't go on the stage until you're ready for everything and the only way you're fully ready for anything everything is when you share everything on your terms my advice is that one or two things that aren't out there you get ahead of them play a Tribune your old video a mini doc own it so that's because once you get out there you'll do well you [ __ ] odd here it's a very intriguing story for a lot of people in culture what I don't want is for as that's building and it's working and it becomes a real thing for you that there is one or two things that you haven't gotten to and then your oh you always know that that's out you know and I hear you secretly and know it will come up or because you don't want it to come up you suppress your upside if you've gotten to a place where you're putting in the right context that's a universal story for everybody around everything the death of a parent the a business failing public like it's your stories universally important and if you're one that's on the other side of it and it's the contagion control of it you have a lot of value to bring and then the fact that it's so star power E versus like just a gal whose business went out of business when it looked like she was building a big business that's just not gonna capture hundreds of thousands of people you have the luxury of it will capture millions of people so I would say get your [ __ ] right up here and then the second you feel like you're ready like you'll I did I basically made pretend what question can be asked that would most make me feel awkward on stage and once that answer was nothing I [ __ ] went crazy feel free to reach out

### [11:52](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w&t=712s) Finding a Niche

you find it possible to be able to have multiple streams or do you have to find a niche in a sector I think multiple works especially if it's true to that purse everything I've been selling cuz it's true to me but everything I tell he's like you've got to find your mark you got to go and that's like it's not me I love everything I could literally say I love every knee - and you're [ __ ] killing her you inspire so I appreciate that but that's it I just wanted to know if that was ever if you just want to possum in this market different people do different things and different things work for different people like it's people too often give advice that is too literal to them without taking it to the higher level like for me you know it's like the content question it's about self awareness video work for me because I end up being good at it I didn't know that until I started doing it

### [12:40](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w&t=760s) Focus on the Customer

the first need is to spend no time worrying about them and quadrupling down on your customer and then getting in people with them so they don't need and then refocusing on getting more that is not that's not something you can control yeah totally the answer I'd six liquor stores open up around me as we were exploding I put zero dates on the number one wheel when somebody surrounds you is to pay attention zero today just the customer

### [13:19](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSRwoG9W6_w&t=799s) The Framework of My Life

thank you that's the framework of my life I have like 13 17 29 principles you know what's amazing tick-tock and LinkedIn and whatsapp are the biggest thing I talk about my team today not a peep about that [ __ ] six months ago that's what's so great about like what I think I've got a foundational capability and concept that is completely predicated on a moving target right I'm I want to be the best of the world at observing where attention is and are executing on it good news Gary attention we'll move until the day you die thinking about saying [ __ ] less and changing it to duck since my [ __ ] keyboard always autocorrects it is that the right way that's 100 gen that's right [ __ ] ya Jason let's go Lenny facts Geoff you filming this beautiful I'm so [ __ ] tired of people being confused that it's me actually engaging with you that I've now converted to voice on the text messaging platform no confusion this isn't Jason typing this is an Andy or d-roc typing it's me [ __ ] it's me yo I want to get on stage can you wrap this up hi to people on I'm a library to people after like five minutes it was like such a good feeling I was like this is the [ __ ] dirt this is the dirt this is what I [ __ ] you couldn't you should have seen my face I was like this right yo d-roc put in the thread I want to find a filter that makes me look like a baby and I'm gonna post it I want an image is that snapchats got a baby one yeah where is it like yeah it guys I need it right away like get in the thread like I need a baby ASAP I got it I need that cliff the ethics of my that's your life right alive where's the car brother car

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