# Don’t Judge Success on 0.002% of Your Year | DailyVee 558

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLNAUffWICc
- **Дата:** 12.06.2019
- **Длительность:** 16:43
- **Просмотры:** 247,711
- **Источник:** https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/17906

## Описание

This was a super fun DailyVee. On May 17th, Gary spent a day in Malaysia where he spit a fire keynote and met with some fans. He gives his latest two cents around judgment, leadership, and self-awareness. Make sure to watch all the way to the end for some bloopers ;)
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## Транскрипт

### Intro []

don't judge yourself in the daling yearly and slow it down be patient you got your prospective I enjoyed paying my dues I loved when I was 28 on December 9th working a register because it was busy in the store and having my friends from college come to the store in their BMW because they worked on Wall Street and they're buying a case of wine and they're like looking dead in my face and I know what they're thinking which is they just pulled up into my store and their BMW and I'm the help going downstairs to pick up their case of champagne I enjoyed those moments because I knew exactly how it's gonna play out for me

### Entrepreneurship is scary [1:00]

happiness is being able to do what you want to do at all times just wouldn't want that and I think that is one of the great things about entrepreneurs the perfect cost of that is you're always one second away from dying right entrepreneurship is scary like one second you're the top of the world next thing you know like there is nobody behind you you're the last line it's like fighting a war just you do the laughs this is the castle you know everybody's been fighting you so that's lonely that's scary but you get to define it you get to tell when everybody is where they position this how they should find it and so I love that feeling I love being in that place loving what you do is so on you know people hear that it's you know even when I was a kid alone on a boat like you know it's very fluffy but it's very truthful it's like being happy and what you do and whether that's making forty five thousand a year for four million a year if you really love it and you're really doing what you want to be doing that's a very good place to be you're just gonna be happy and I genuinely do think we have a major branding issue on success and I mean across seven point seven billion people every part of the world and I'm very passionate about REITs like being one of the voices that tries to redefine it because I'm unbelievably not driven by money unbelievably I spent the first 12 years of my life building the family business from a three to a sixty million our business for my parents and left at 34 years old with nothing to my name then started a company with my brother was coming out of college and made him a 50/50 partner and then he left four years later and I spent tens of millions of dollars to buy him out like money does not drive McKeen

### How lucky are we [2:55]

I'm unbelievably in tune with the fact that it's almost impossible to become a human being and I have no interest for taking that for granted like if I love with analytical people like out so when I have a very deeply math kid in front of me and we're having some sort of debate and they're upset about something I'm like you know the odds of being a human being or 400 trillion to one right like I think that what drives me is an unbelievably clear perspective to how lucky we are to have an at-bat and I'm struggling to dwell on dumb [ __ ] as long as eight people that I love more than life are alive that morning I'm in good spirits I really am yeah you know like look I think adversity and humble beginnings is an incredibly good framework to happiness if you layer positivity and optimism around your difficulty a lot of times people look at their difficult thing dwell and go the other way so for me what it's like I'm excited every day cuz I get to play and yes I love competing but I love competing more than I love the game more than the trophy that the game gives me and that is also another happy part but I have my perspective and Shaq I really do and I don't just say it I live it and what's really fun for me is that I'm a little bit older when this is all happened so I have a lot of people my life who've known me long before I ever made one single piece of content the internet in the wine world let alone what it's manifested into and it's funny when once in a blue moon if some things fester and you know there's a little bit of push back against me it's really fun to see like amber school in high school in college and early wine people jump into me like business who me [ __ ] you think this is somebody else this is the way this dude was when nobody was watching you know I've always been very grateful I'm very grateful

### Do what you want [4:55]

you should always be doing what you want you don't know yet not at first like to your point if you do something for a year and a half and nobody gives a [ __ ] now you're delusional but but notice that I'm giving you an answer based on where you're right now if you don't have a podcast yet you should start with what you loved because the only way you're going to do something hard enough is if you want it you know so you start with something you love you do it for a year you feel it out and you know if you're now into year two and nobody still lives matter now it's you know people always said that hardest question to ask is when should you double down on staying the course and persevering or when should you bail and shut it down you never really like I could never answer that question there's too much I need to know to answer that question but in the beginning point it's very easy for me to answer do something you [ __ ] love because if you're doing something you think will do well you're now already in a place where it's gonna be hard for you to make your content enough passionate about it you have so many other [ __ ] you're gonna choose what else is better or easier like you know it's hard to get going around something you don't feel great about you're just doing it for what for listening to subscribes for what I mean I'm so passionately trying to get people to realize happy is better than money I'm passionate about this it's a very important conversation that we feel like we have to do if we want to really really change it we have to redefine that success looks like it is just not how many subscribers you have it is not how much money it's just not and people are pandering to the machines the algorithms the descriptions and ultimately why for the money right you're gonna pander for those Christians and for the likes because that leads to the brand deals the money and this is like something that I think we need to talk about it's something we're now mature enough in this ecosystem that it's time for us to now have more thoughtful conversations we still have we have to start having this conversation I know it's out of that

### Balance [7:05]

like what you do after it too much balance between creating fun time are you able to afford not doing your job because my bit money my sizes are this in the hive like very my content can you cook can you control your expenses again I mean that's you know it's a very practical answer like I get that one would want to you know you got a nail down it is after your job obviously you'd love to not have to do you've only got two option wait to your side hustles get to enough that you can leave your job or leave your job and live way more humbly with roommates or back home or whatever the hell it is those are the only two real options big time yeah I think three at the same time is fine I don't think you're stretched too thin or doing too many things I think that that's great if you could maintain it as long as you don't mentally burn out yeah and even if by the way do three things burn out and drop one it's at one you know what I mean like what works today doesn't have to be what works tomorrow right this is one big game of self-awareness it's not how I want it it's not how you want it it's how you need it for yourself you just need to keep asking yourself what do you need and what you need today is different than what you're going to need tomorrow and it's different than what you needed yesterday this is a forever evolving thing evolved to what feels right today not what you think it should be you guys I've been doing okay so there's one thing you want to tell every creative out there that's what doing out is trying to write get up to day Korea what would that one thing be it takes years a great creative work to get to that place like stop judging yourself just cuz this one video didn't get as many views are not as many likes don't judge yourself in the daily yearly and slow it down be patient I love that thank you so just as one of your life I mean I struggled when I was a kid because I hated school but since I've been a grown up not so not really and I'll tell you why anytime I start getting sad I get sad like anybody else I immediately put things in perspective and here's what I do like context like just cuz this business thing or just because these people said this thing about me what like what would happen if my mom died today bye guys the women out there we're gonna say listen I have so much respect because you guys deal with so many extra dynamics that dudes don't so I would say keep persevering you got this thank you so much you're welcome bye the one that is just really

### Sacrifices [10:05]

really big for me right now is how many kids don't want to do with their parents want them to do but aren't willing to pay the sacrifices to do what they want to do but they don't know Gary like they do they know they do they don't want to pay the price they still want their parents to pay for their rent uber they still want like they think that they're in control of what their parents are willing to give when so many when you want something from somebody you're not in control of what they give yeah like would you live at home you live under their rule my big thing that always makes me laugh is like there was this kid the other day that got really upset with me I'm like during a Q& A because I wouldn't invest in his company and finally I said to him like it was really actually like a scene and I was like bro you're asking huh like he was mad at me I'm like I'm not asking you for anything and that's a very like when you're asking for something you don't have the leverage like period like you don't want to go to college you don't have want to be a doctor you don't have to go be a doctor right but that also means that if that's what your parents want and that's what they're willing to pay for you can't be like hey mom you know how you're gonna give me 80 thousand to go be a doctor that that's what you want well I don't want that I want to be a painter so give me that 80 thousand that's not her you have to leave that on the table that money that infrastructure comes with that ambition like if you want that safety and that money well that means you're gonna be a lawyer if you want to be a [ __ ] motorcycle racer that means you're gonna live in a studio apartment with 19 friends people ask the dumbest [ __ ] this kidney other things like Gary Vee but how do you do this in the Bay Area it's so expensive like you move dick you don't live in the Bay Area you have a choice pure like Gary look what the [ __ ] like you're trying to pay $14 an hour how do you survive in New York City I'm like you live in Queens and you take there like you can do anything you have options people aren't willing to sacrifice for what they want they this is why I jump on they don't know they know people don't want to deal with the truth what you know there's two things I do I keep it basic and I go right at my question actually isn't for

### Giovanni [12:40]

me it's for my son Giovanni he wants to be a twitch streamer sounds aged struggled with so I'm wondering if you can give him a few words what can you can do what type of actions you can take today to build this confidence Shivani I think the question you know I see we're recording this look when you're 10 years old confidence is a very funny thing they're still forming as a human but the reality is if you're twitching and you're over responding to how many subscribers you have or what your friends in school are saying you're not going to be able to be successful and so you're lucky Giovanni to be able to start this process now not when you're 45 years old the quicker you get comfortable with judgment of others the more likely you'll be successful long-term the way to get your confidence up is to start enjoying the push back people say that you can't is to start enjoying the judgment of others who don't understand if you're not comfortable in your own framework you'll never succeed love you guys I gotta catch my flight but I love you thank you for coming love you back thank you yeah Ellie love it great energy in there yeah it was thank you good to see you in Sydney can't wait thank you so much you know thank you bye guys bye thank you

### New Jersey [14:20]

dude I'm so fired up about this so nice you know what this is do you know what it is this is a replication of the single thing that I value the most in the entire universe when I was seven years old and we moved to New Jersey and I became a Jets fan my friends had jerseys and I came home one day and they said mom everybody has a jersey I want one and we couldn't afford to buy a $20 Jersey so week later my mom knitted me one this is the exact thing she knitted this is exactly what it looks like with my name on the back and the reason I do five is because five was my favorite number even as that little bit kid and that's what they said this is exactly I can't wait to wear this I can't wait like hope it's super cold in your

### Outro [15:20]

too much overthinking in the system that was the theme of the keynote great tripping KL Malaysia I love you Singapore thank you for your time d-roc support leave a comment subscribe or d-roc will cry see if you can leave a comment there is flog oh I don't mean on camera and in the comments section on YouTube should we name this character