# The Counterintuitive Truth About Tinder | DailyVee 551

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ll6QAi-SZx0
- **Дата:** 08.05.2019
- **Длительность:** 10:55
- **Просмотры:** 160,265
- **Источник:** https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/17921

## Описание

In this video, Gary gets real about the current state of online dating, stressing out about your bills, and hangs out with Casey Neistat. 

What do you think about online dating? 

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## Транскрипт

### Segment 1 (00:00 - 05:00) []

you got your prospective happy don't you want to be happy I here's how I think we should do it I think you guys should be sending me clips and if you don't get an answer like I think you do it twice like kind of what you just did and I think tonight you kind of go with the third and final chance otherwise we're done a title five is the right way to do it got it yeah I thought so too okay turn me realize the Machine halfway not yeah it's really incredible and I'm seriously going away right yeah I mean you know when you purposely the sky's something it's hard for anybody to know that going from 2 to 15 it's like going from 50 to 100 it's easier the problem is people go from 2 to 50 and then they change everything because they think they've made it or they've figured it out or they go from humility to ego their behavior changes and the reason fifty to a hundred is equally as hard is it becomes a mental game based on the predicated success of the past and I think staying in those tried and true being disproportionately bringing value to the end consumer hiring the great people what I get excited about when I hear you talk is understanding now how to go all-in and how to be great at LinkedIn marketing not just do it right you know I always think about that I think about like a kid who has an uncle who comes and visits and then all of a sudden puts them on skis and they love it and they're like oh this is good but then they have to put in the work and that's why they become an Olympic skier it did take the uncle to show them but then it took them to put in the work in the practice to get some ridiculous results from it it's d-roc dear Harriet just joined Vayner for to lead all comms for the bean or ex world Zack is the CEO of [ __ ] speakers cheese situation is proper no but it is super property as a nice Jew as a nice Russian Jewish boy like T is like culture of course that's like the one thing mean all my UK friends like when I first started going to London a bunch like that was the one thing that I like resonated with so well this is gorgeous I don't want to know the questions I don't know I feel like we should be go live on Instagram and I literally have a phone because I think we should do call people and just make their day like we have all this time I'm like literally stressed by having this much time before we go on yeah like we should make like we should call people randomly like that's literally what I'm thinking well you do what you need to do it well there's just too much downtime so I was gonna be content like butter good ready so many people were asking me like how do I live my dream Gary and you know I don't have time I have mortgages and bills and responsibilities in my job I don't have time for my side hustle my twitch channel my Instagram account my Shopify stores selling pretties and I keep getting to this new place which is talk to me about your bills like why'd you buy an apartment that stretches you why is your car so fancy like why do you need the new Gucci every time like why are you going out Thursday Friday and Saturday night like why are you going to Coachella a vendors opening night and buying the biggest piece of popcorn and candy like the answer to all of your questions is not how much money you make or how much time you have it's what you're spending your money on we can do a lot more of this which is what we used to do like that's like a good piece of content there may not be anything more human than tinder yet we demonize it in reverse because it is not the current social accepted like I really believe like I hate when people like judge feeling like what are you supposed to do with your chemicals in your 20s that's exactly like the most like actual true you know what I mean we've evolved so much that is how we

### Segment 2 (05:00 - 10:00) [5:00]

look at it but like you know what it's on your time to control when you're engaging versus I'm gonna step aside three hours and go to the bar in 1987 and see what happens versus the collective the three and a half week ghosting conversation is still one tensive amount of time that going out on that Friday you know what I mean like it's like you're in control your time like you're in between subway stops and now you've decided to hit up that conversation first like I don't know I feel like look technology exposes things it doesn't change things and so like I don't know I sit on the others yes now online datings the greatest one has ever happen to people and like they're in control of it like you don't like it don't usually like I love people that even eyes online dating but then like [ __ ] on people writing letters right like pick a side I got that super excited about it huh once it gets like two or three thousand you could tell them what I'm about to do all right so I'm tasting this and then we're going to a meeting somebody's will bang this out like yeah okay good excited Instagram big news this is the first time I'm trying the empathy wines white which will start delivering starting Thursdays Nate the handsome partner trout you're supposed to say the grains or something yeah no bottle shock we should be shipping third or fourth with them week of May so three to four weeks well I mean do you think somebody might sneak it for Memorial Day that's cool but right nope without over-promising fourth of July is gonna be lit by the way if you're not reordering your rosette you're making a huge mistake you can order rose' in three six nine three six twelve by itself right now if you go to empty whines I know bunch of you've gone through your rose' already so go do that if you order three it's 27 bucks if you order a case it's 20 bucks something we need to communicate to some peeps how big all right here it is just warming it up a little bit more no I know yeah like thank God no that is the one difference between the book and the sneakers and the wine is the real ordering first of all a lot of people didn't believe it was gonna be good so everybody got their three rows A's and like I mean the amount of people that hit me up that said I bought it to support you know I was gonna give it away and then me or my wife or my me or my husband or whoever like we tried it and we'd like it now we just ordered it so you focus on why are you might be like this it's a good situation okay here we go the white aromatics are killer we're gonna win that game what's the final breakdown a Bridals you know that means you do know so Shannon and Grenache Blanc are two of the three most highest percentages watch it how much Chenin love it guys I made this wine like we made this wine with you no actually I can't say we cuz I can't speak to what these guys were thinking for me selfishly when we were tasting I was like you know we need to make out a wine that just changes the white wine game cuz rose' in red or eating up the gate like Reds have been established froze days eating into white we got to get people excited about white again and I don't think that can just be something a Blanc I don't think that just can be Chardonnay I think it needs to be a blend and when

### Segment 3 (10:00 - 10:00) [10:00]

I think of Grenache and I think of Chenin Blanc but I think of Chardonnay foundational in the middle like I'm excited all right what else here we go aromatics our lady