# What Are People Going To Think If You Lose? ## Метаданные - **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk - **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2wpyKOBTDM - **Дата:** 11.04.2019 - **Длительность:** 5:01 - **Просмотры:** 144,479 ## Описание These 5 minutes are super important to me. Stop dwelling on the past and giving it so much power. Don’t worry what already happened .. it happened. Focus on what you have a be grateful for it. Hope this piece of content helps alter your mindset. Tweet me @GaryVee with any questions :) — If you haven't joined my #FirstInLine community, you need to jump on it ASAP! By joining #FirstInLine, my messaging program, you get details on exclusive giveaways that I'm doing, updates regarding my keynotes/conferences, and more ;) You can join here: https://garyvee.com/JoinFIL Thank you for watching this video. I hope that you keep up with the daily videos I post on the channel, subscribe, and share your learnings with those that need to hear it. 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sense so what's the question you're looking at the past but I struggle so hard with my answer to my you know like I can handle it so it's either coming it's coming from one or two places it's cut you're allowing somebody else to judge you or you're judging yourself I'm telling you ### [0:48](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2wpyKOBTDM&t=48s) The 1 thing that fascinates me the number one thing that fascinates me about people is they take the past and give it so much credit and they underestimate the current in the future you're looking dead in the face of getting results yet the fear of the replication of something that happened before is stopping you from going so I think this is about making a decision and not dwelling or pondering on what if because what-ifs crippled people you will regret not going for it way more than if you fail a second time everybody here right now can sit here ### [1:19](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2wpyKOBTDM&t=79s) What if and say what if about something I should have stuck with Paul I should have invested in face but like good you know like what if scared look you gotta be so taking action is especially if it doesn't cost you top money and it's just time is always a better answer than pondering or thinking or trying to decide if this is gonna work you don't know the learning of the failure is equal to the victory of it I'd rather lose again like I like what you can lose your how you like you know like people are scared of things that aren't real are not real it can life like nobody knows what's gonna happen tomorrow so how do you I'm sorry it's all right good by recognizing I have no choice you guys got love for each other in those three kids you could be in homeless and happy you could you could I mean we don't might not feel ### [2:18](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2wpyKOBTDM&t=138s) Fear of others I feel it might be better but like I'm just trying to ask people what they're scared I've been what they're scared of if they go all the way to the core is other people's opinions by not worrying about what other people think it allows you to do things by doing things you either win or you learn from your loss and it creates speed it's the absolute mental difference between the people that are executing a winning versus the people that aren't it's the fear of others I don't want to lose but I'm definitely more disappointed than your opinion in your blog post about my loss I'm just looking at you to like their love that's good so guess what you're in a [ __ ] place what do you need what do you want you need Netflix what do you need like ### [3:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2wpyKOBTDM&t=180s) Gratitude I'm confused by people creating these fake frameworks and so I navigate happy because I'm just grateful for what I have and other people have more other people s when I had a whole lot less I was happy with I had then I just everyday recognized that if I'm in my own head and realized that everybody's got their own do then I don't spend time complaining and dwelling I spend time on doing you wouldn't be scared if you ### [3:25](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2wpyKOBTDM&t=205s) Conclusion realize the worst-case scenario is it'd be worse there'd be three of you right but like what like I'm telling you right now those kids are not gonna lose if you guys are losing it's gonna make them stronger they all have different personalities but if you're instilling the right values and showing them love they're gonna win I'd much rather have loving parents that were homeless and still bad than successful parents that were doing the wrong thing I'm gonna have a better life that's been proven people are scared of other people's judgement right what are people gonna think if we lose our home or we lose again you're pondering you lack the confidence because you're worried about what people say I like losing that's why this is all so easy give up if you said I lost man I'm telling you rocky six I think that's the one where he went back to the big right when he lost everything that was my it wasn't a good movie and that's my favorite one because he went back to zero and it's not that scary who you're scared instead security insecurities poison massive poison stop looking backwards it's just uh it will slow you down to where you're going you --- *Источник: https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/17939*