# How to Figure Out Your Life After Graduating College | DailyVee 512 ## Метаданные - **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk - **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KFYolTZXidA - **Дата:** 04.12.2018 - **Длительность:** 9:46 - **Просмотры:** 389,128 ## Описание I genuinely believe that the world is giving the “wrong” information to 20-somethings. This is not the time to go “safe” and “practical.” This is the time to be massively risk oriented. It’s time to go live in Bali for a year, or try to become Beyonce, or live with 8 roommates in a studio apartment hustling towards your passion. I have empathy for things like student debt … but this is the time to make the high risk moves around the things that’ll make you the happiest, even if you have to work more (or take a night shift job while you focus on your passion during the day). 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because I genuinely believe the world is telling you the reverse of the right information when ### [0:14](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KFYolTZXidA&t=14s) High Risk Behavior you're this young the number one thing you should do is the most high-risk behavior of your life you know to me this is exactly when you should go live in Bali for a year this is exactly when you try to become Beyonce this is exactly when you do the highest risk the biggest reason that kids like people become unhappy is they try to attract they're playing life in Reverse the only things that you could be dealing with are either debt or expectations of your parents and what your parents and society do is tells you to do the lowest risk maneuver the number one thing you should be thinking about is the highest risk behavior around the thing that you think is gonna make you the happiest which is gonna go spitting in the face of everybody from your parents to the school you're in till your friends and what they thought and maybe even to yourself an hour ago self-awareness is the most important without even knowing any of you I'm sure your love affair with your music skill craft has evolved through your life right and this is exactly the time where some of you are looking at me and be like do I even love this [ __ ] anymore another huge recommendation I would give you is go work literally for free or like minimum wage or as little as possible for the exact human being that you aspire to be at 23 24 25 you should go work for Vera Wang for free and then at night you should work at Whole Foods on the night shift and you should work live with eight people so you only need to make 300 bucks but everybody does the reverse they take a job that they don't even like for $3,000 more I have a lot of empathy for people in debt I have way less for people not in debt because then they're letting the Machine parents society dictate their lives who they then later resent because they followed their path not yours but like getting some [ __ ] job ### [2:16](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KFYolTZXidA&t=136s) Dont Do This to like pay off the debt and moonlighting as your passion it's the reverse don't buy a new pair of Supremes or like a new handbag or take a nice trip to Coachella otherwise you get stuck you're just stuck in perpetuity or do that I don't give a [ __ ] but don't not do what you want to do I do not have your profession do you can either work for somebody that you want to become or try your Lee [ __ ] you're talking to somebody who's ridiculously happy because he never played in the system I was a terrible student even though every immigrant shouldn't have been right I worked for my dad's liquor store and built up a family business for my family so I made no money I'd go different you know my narrative is very tricky a lot of people like oh but your dad I'm like I built my dad's business for him and left with nothing at 34 you know but I was happy I didn't care that my friends went to Wall Street and got a BMW I was I had self-esteem I didn't need a cool apartment to get girls I didn't even want to get girls I'm so busy working on what I was passionate about to be frank you know if you're great at something and you're [ __ ] passionate about it you should have the best life and people [ __ ] it up I didn't I did everything wrong for 13 years which made me win and stay happy even though you're studying a field bit is related to what you want your career to be they're still in classes and completing those classes takes up takes a lot of effort and time right there they're putting classes that have nothing to do with the future right yeah okay that my personal point of view on that is to only allocate the amount of time and passion that allows you to get to the next place you need to what I'm saying is whatever the lowest grade you can get in that class that allows you to continue in advance is what you should aim for a lot of people's DNA only makes them strive towards perfection which eats up an allocation of time that I think you should be deploying on other things so if you're telling me right now you're self-aware enough to know this [ __ ] accounting class or whatever [ __ ] you go to is not gonna mean anything to me you know there's only a couple variables one there's the school's rules of what you need to get to pass and graduate right then the only other variables are your own kind of you know self-worth of how you deliver it in a class environment and then the only other variable is your parents or anybody else you respect ambition above your grade point average those last two don't mean anything the first one does it's the rules you can't get an F in this or you can't move on but if you can get a C I just don't know I'm saying least amount of resistance against your own self-awareness and passions that allows you to then get you know all of a sudden you can imagine when you're getting an hour back a day from studying on some class that's some [ __ ] but you know yourself they can get a C instead of an a now you have an hour to make Instagram content that may actually lead to the thing that you want to do for a living listen I'm recording this so every [ __ ] parent on earth can see it because if you're a great parent you are your kid to be happy not to get a grade point average that you can go brag at it at the Country Club that's to me the line in the sand of great parents versus good parents versus bad parents and I'm thrilled to say that ### [5:45](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KFYolTZXidA&t=345s) The Line so if you're put on situation where you have to choose between two big opportunities you'll never know what the alternative would have been you pick one and you never ever even consider to look back because you have to understand why let me I always play this out let's say when you go to heaven they can show you what would have happened because that's the only way you'd ever see what people don't understand is Oh Basha you made the wrong call you should have went to grad school instead of that opportunity where this company instead of that company and it was perfect and you rose like a phoenix and you were the head of all sound and everything went great but then you had to go to Virginia on business and you got hit by a car and you died at 31 that's life so to like look at two ideas and think you can practically make a good decision is laughable literally flip a coin just pick the one that feels better right that second and make it about you because usually what kids struggle with is the decision they want to do versus the decision that they think they're supposed to do based on the other voices you want to get real happy have the conversation that you actually want to have with the seven people you're closest to tell them the truth of how you feel about everything that will change your life what you don't know is that even if they are pissed at you and like say who the [ __ ] do you think you look no matter how much they [ __ ] on you the level of respect will be real that's where it's at and honestly I'm not telling you to go call your mom and say go [ __ ] yourself but I am saying that the next the transition to the happiest place you can go is if you can be self-fulfilled within yourself beyond pathetic for your parents not mad you know a lot of you probably have this either your grandparents your parents paid a lot of sacrifices to give you this chance that's their framework on the world but you shouldn't be paying the price for that because you're living in a different reality it doesn't mean you're disrespectful some of you don't have death because your parents paid like theirs you should be thankful and empathetic they should not live your life for them because I'll tell you how it's gonna play out brother so you'll be okay for the next ten years and then you have 40 years of resentment and regret and a bad relationship parents a lot of time to see this confident get mad at me but then I talked to them and I'm like you may be upset with me now email me in 2037 when you don't when your kids have no ammo on you to believe you for their unhappiness I'm always worried about your guys backgrounds - are you living your life for the Machine or for your parents and not because I want to razz parents it's cuz I want you to actually have a good relationship with your parent I'm just willing to have a little pain from 22 to 28 guys the only thing I'm hedging against is for rent that's when you need to be careful of and that's what most people do they build a life that leads to regret nobody old and about to die talks about what they did they talk about what they do and you're in the best spot right now you're the best buy you'll ever be straight up this is the time to be most song thoughtful but everybody wants you to figure out your life now your parents don't have their lives to get out this is the time to taste and put yourself into positions you could do everything wrong for the next 10 years of your life and the youngest [ __ ] and have unlimited time to do anything you want like I don't know it's to tell you can do everything wrong this is when you need to be ridiculous --- *Источник: https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/18106*