# The Human Pursuit of Happiness | A Gary Vaynerchuk Original

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_fegRa65Jc
- **Дата:** 21.07.2018
- **Длительность:** 6:04
- **Просмотры:** 270,222
- **Источник:** https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/18281

## Описание

Even the cheer at the end is slow and muted, it’s very and I mean very hard to understand the concept of loving the journey over the trophy.
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It’s almost impossible when you don’t have the things that you want to understand that the chase of those things if you pick the right path will end up tasting sweeter than the items you amass.
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When you want 100k followers, when you chase 10k likes a post, you don’t realize how empty it can feel when you get there and more importantly you don’t even know why, they just seem like the right numbers.
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My friends, please try to start the process of understanding happiness, understanding why you feel the way you do, what makes you insecure and want a fancy car or house, why when you go through your feed you feel #fomo please understand that doing things you love will lead to the things you want even when they don’t pay you what you THINK you need to get what you THINK you want.

Share this with someone you want happiness for.

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## Транскрипт

### Segment 1 (00:00 - 05:00) []

people quit all the time because they're doing it for the money there's a debate right now going on Twitter of like how many years do you have to work until the hard work until the thing this guy's like Gary you said you hustled your face off for ten years he's like I only had to do it for two years I couldn't imagine doing it for ten and I'm laughing at him and another guy jumps in and goes well Gary said it best eat [ __ ] for blank ears and eat caviar for the rest of your life like are you enjoying like is this fun and I'm sure he's a lovely dude is this fun are you filming this or are you doing it because you think it's gonna get you to the next level of success do you love your process the Gateway to happiness is to love your process whatever that may be whether that's creates wealth or doesn't if that creates legacy and art or doesn't that creates impact in the world or it doesn't you're clearly driven like you know first wanted to be in the FPA and I a deep then you wanted to be in the PBA act like I think the thing that you need to understand is that you've got a gear of motivation that makes you do the first two things in sports didn't work out the thing that worked out and acting it did worked out whatever the definition of what you're trying to figure out right now it may or may not work what I'm excited about is the fact that you've got a gear that makes you want to do I think one of the biggest problems right now especially for people under 30 who want to be influencers or entrepreneurs which is almost everybody there's a lot of vanity metrics that they're trying to achieve to that mean nothing I raised fifty million dollars so you might go out of business I've got a million subscribers so I've got to hunt ten million subscribers so I think right now you know we live in a world that has so much data that people are living towards the numbers how many likes how many followers how much capital have raised it it's a it becomes a numbers racket race and it usually leads to bad behavior because when you're chasing a number that people can see you often take shortcuts for me the [ __ ] is the cabbie like I love the [ __ ] process I love building a very big reason acting probably looked out was you both thought it could bring you something you were looking for from the level of attention and success and fame and dollars but you also liked it because otherwise if you didn't like it you would have quit after the third no at officience when you do something for money you quit when you do it because you love it you do it forever people win when they're self-aware some want to make their bed some don't some have this strength some have that weakness you need to figure out who you are and you need to execute against that you have to love the process not the stuff that the process buys you people quit all the time because they're doing it for the money I think the bigger question is what do you want the money for is it blocking and insecurities if you get the girl is it it's because you're trying to amass as much as you can because you don't actually don't like working and you want to live a the reason so many people say fail in life and business is their model is let me get the money so that I can enjoy and relax they think of it as like hoarding it and then eating it all over time so our retirement and uh listen it's such a bad way to because then you're feeling the pressure of like massing so that you can then enjoy I think the bigger question is like what do you up to like why are you doing it like what's up I just think a lot of people are trying to achieve success and use fame or money as makeup for a situation that they're just not happy about like you have to figure out how to make your day in and day out happy it's all an inside game you need to be enjoying the amassing so much that you never get to the enjoying part otherwise you're gonna be impatient and trying to be out of it as quickly as possible to buy those things or you're gonna regret it later in life right like I will never retire because it's not as fun as working like like it's very it's not as fun for me to lay on the beach and play golf all day and and lay on a yacht in the middle of the Mediterranean for a hundred days in the summer and go to vineyards and go to concerts and see friends that's not as fun as [ __ ] 15 hours of meetings all day I don't want to lay in Aswan in a pool I don't want to that is what people have to figure out whether that's singing or being a mother or teaching a classroom to me the game matters and by life somebody may be looking and being like Gary looks like [ __ ] 4 a. m. 6 flights and Asia and I'm sitting here in Ibiza and for her or him that's winning and that's great you've got to try and figure that out at all costs that if you're not happy right now you need to do something different I just don't understand how people think wealth is the gateway to happiness is to love your whether that's creates wealth or doesn't if that creates legacy in art or doesn't that creates impact on the world or it doesn't you've got it you've got to try and figure that out at all costs that if

### Segment 2 (05:00 - 06:00) [5:00]

you're not happy right now you need to do something different you just have to be if you are not happy right now you have to break your patterns you have to look at life from a different perspective you have to find a different angle to look at it from because the [ __ ] goes fast if you know it's long figure out what your [ __ ] winning is my winning is different than a lot of people's I don't get envy I get excited I get competitive I enjoy it I join my thing what's your thing that makes you the happiest may just focus there only there