# The Anti Keyboard Activist – You’re in Control of You | Keynote in 5

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DGV4rUhZJ0U
- **Дата:** 12.05.2018
- **Длительность:** 5:49
- **Просмотры:** 56,107
- **Источник:** https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/18372

## Описание

Really loved getting to sit down with Tom Bilyeu a while back for his show Impact Theory... if you haven't seen the original video of this, it's something that you need to watch.

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## Транскрипт

### Intro []

I think so many people are keyboard activists right everybody's good at sending a tweet about how the world should be and nobody's doing anything about it and that just that is just very much human nature so if you're not

### Youre in control [0:12]

complaining well then I've never I have no advice for you but I'm pumped like you did it like you're in control like you don't complain about it you've made that choice don't [ __ ] me I don't want to be exposed by myself it's it's looking at yourself in the mirror and saying like am I doing this right so to me there's so many people there talking [ __ ] about how big of an entrepreneur they're gonna be and how much they're gonna achieve and they don't work on weekends you know I worked

### My plan [0:42]

every Saturday of my 20s I plan to instill kindness into my kids I plan on instilling perspective instilling just being a good human being I plan on making sure they don't use their parents wealth and micro fame and leverage to impose on any other person I'm petrified of that if my kids

### My kids [1:05]

try to Punk their friends on my [ __ ] I'm gonna beat the [ __ ] out of them like that just loser DNA you didn't do that like I just want them to be all in on them right like I don't need them to be an entrepreneur make me proud they don't need to go to Harvard do [ __ ] they need to be themselves all in and kind and I'm good do you feel like you judge yourself I don't that's a very very good observation and it's what I want for everybody else we're beating ourselves up like

### We all have shortcomings [1:37]

everybody sucks that's something right like we all have shortcomings and we all have strengths and for me it's like why don't we just audit that look at it that way and be like all right well I'm good at this but I'm not gonna dad like and then and then I only focus what I'm good at right like I don't dwell that I can't fix [ __ ] around the house I call somebody to fix it like I'm not a man I don't give a [ __ ] you're exactly right man I don't judge myself I'm fully in love with myself but I'm also everybody else too right it's not like it goes both ways like I tell people to buy in to be that worked for me it's cuz I buy into them first like everybody like makes these big deals out of things that just don't matter its perspective you know my selfishness comes from my selflessness like it's what makes me feel good I say

### What makes me feel good [2:26]

to my mother my mom is the epicenter to every single person her life to me everything's about breathing right like to me everything is about like take full ownership for everything and then everything gets easy because then you're in control and then learn how to love to lose like for me my games simple right it's all my fault so now I'm not mad at Lindsay or D rocker that's it my fault I'm empowering them so it's actually true my fault now oh we lost this or this didn't deliver or we [ __ ] up alright so yeah all on me you know I enjoy losses now all of a sudden like what you become completely invincible I feel invincible I really genuinely outside of the health of myself and 20 people feel 100% invincible as a person I know what my

### Im far from perfect [3:17]

intent is I want to do good at nobody else's expense I'm far from perfect we all are and so just easy it feels very light to live life I'm just in a good mood like I like it's like you know I've been like trying to forget I'm like why is this thing even exist it's actually the most common-sense thing of all time wise karma seem weird the [ __ ] is karma like wait a minute so you're telling me like if you do lots of good things that weirdly good things happen to you yeah that seems like common sense I always

### You have to act like one [3:47]

say if you want to be an anomaly you have to act like one like people want all these special things to happen but then they're acting like everybody else I want to do the following I'm fascinated by the same thing that attracts so many millions of people to people that are selling [ __ ] those same people are attracted to me and what I want to do is suffocate out all those other people and become the Alpha of that entire world of people that are hoping and are desperate to

### What I want to do [4:23]

look at me and what I want to do is inspire two 14 year old girls in Kansas City right now to build a billion dollar company on having a bunch of employees hugging each other in the halls I want my pedestal moment I want to become that big and what I want to come from that is that kids that aren't even born today think that they can build a five billion dollar company and be a great guy or great gal I want to build the biggest building in town ever by just building

### Positivity [4:51]

the biggest building in town while I think most people try to tear down everybody else's building so I think positivity and good is practical advice to building an empire and I want to be the poster child of the person that built the biggest baddest empire and did it by being a good dude along the way I want to do it and I want to be a rockstar right like and that's where you influence people like you know like I want to do it but I also want to be the most popular and so then that person's like oh I want to be him so I guess I'll be nice like I want to literally take people who have DNA that's kind of nice and make them more nice because they think that's how I became big so I basically want to trick the business world into becoming kinder