# Why a Chip on Your Shoulder Is the Greatest Motivation | DailyVee 417 ## Метаданные - **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk - **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tq9y6LzooVc - **Дата:** 16.02.2018 - **Длительность:** 12:33 - **Просмотры:** 112,452 ## Описание Life is about alternatives... You can either dwell on the past and say "I'm not successful because..." or you can take control of your life and work around anything that's going on. Look, I 100% respect the shit out of the fact that there are some people that grew up with parents that were drug addicts or that have had to work 3 jobs for the last 5 years and then lose everything... But, when given the opportunity to take control of your life and push through, I don't know what the other reasonable alternative possibly could be. Music: Muted - Staring https://artlist.io/ Thank you for watching this video. 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life and decide the reason you weren't successful in life is because when you were 19 your brother stole $8,000 from you or you put that chip on your shoulder and you get more motivated than ever and you go harder every minutes accounted for so when I'm on it's 15 hours tight all in mourning tonight period what I know is I know that how the platforms work when you have a direct ask at the end when it's about go fill this out go donate you've taken 50% of the energy out of the piece of content when there's an ask in the same time that there is a setup you've lost equity the charming guy at the bar who was a very nice one our conversation if his last thing out of his mouth psyched all right you want to come upstairs he kind of defeated a lot of the set up whereas if you're just but this is the way I think about it right but like this is a very good way to think about it cuz it's very universal and every human understands it had that then turned into another date and another date the mission could have been accomplished for whatever the agenda was at hand that's where I want you to go because you have to understand why every person that reads and consumes that I can cookie and retarget them and ask them separately in a different environment it's not like a gala in a gala when red our highest emotion yes that you know in the moment not digitally yeah got it digitally I've got that it's like if I went to the gal at the highest emotion but you put a little bug on me and you could talk to me all the time you see it's a different setup hey guys thank you so much we'll be in touch yeah that's right I think for all of you the truth is always the answer I think you should test an education and a like you're teaching and you're keeping up with them but you're doing it tactically I'm not talking about a mastermind you know like we like details like the way this is formulated like you're gonna get the real details like it's just details so I think if you're able to continue to educate people on details like wide it's that snapchat changed last week so now there's new details I'm playing with it everyday and my whole thesis that I told everybody for the last two years of like don't give up last year don't give up on snapchat because if they make them my snapchat consumptions up a hundred percent because they changed the UI and they're favoring personalities now anyway like that like linkedin made a change facebook ads change in ceramics organic reach drop like in the world we plan there is a need for constant weekly updated with everything and like it took him and everybody else like whoa this guy plays it different Mazel Tov but then you bet the reason I do that is I don't want to give ammo to anybody Drake the commercial with his liquor or his dad punks him is why Drake wins Drake smart Drake really understands Drake knows that he's gonna be hated on for his style of hack there pretty boy singer rapper so he I think Drake more than anybody uses the 8-mile thesis up he's gonna make fun of himself you know why Drake can't lose a battle cuz he's gonna [ __ ] on himself there's nothing meek or anybody else can say he's gonna say it so you can't say you can't rap you say it's already over honestly here's what's up like I want to start a show called and I've been thinking about this I'm gonna call it and people gonna call in tell me their problem and I'm gonna say and it's a good show right like tell me anything both my parents were crackheads and like I lost my job and my husband's beating me and look these are real [ __ ] I'm not [ __ ] saying these are small things these are the hardest things in life here's my question life's about alternatives what the [ __ ] are you gonna do about it leave your husband I get it you live in a house that's nice and you don't know how to work and you've never worked but you want to get punched their face absolutely not that's [ __ ] unacceptable and I'm gonna make sure you make me continue of the end shell ready P listen but you don't understand like my brother my older brother he I had $8,000 I've been working three jobs and he walked in my room and stole it and left that's it no no just ask and and you either dwell on it for the rest of your life and decide the reason you weren't successful in life is because ### [5:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tq9y6LzooVc&t=300s) Segment 2 (05:00 - 10:00) when you were 19 your brother stole $8,000 from you or you put that chip on your shoulder and you get more motivated than ever and you go harder no [ __ ] you know what you know I don't I'm not [ __ ] normal I get disappointed and frustrated but actually thinking like I'm always macro optimistic like I got life the [ __ ] do I have to be I'm in control I think people are depressed when they don't have things into context they don't realize how lucky they have it and two they don't feel in control it's tough I don't get depressed I get I get critical on my actions I get thoughtful when I'm in a bad place I'm like okay what am i doing that's wrong like but listen my chemical listen this is an illness some people have chemicals that like this is about my brain is right like I have to be thankful for that but here's my thing I don't know how to teach how to get people out of depression I'm just trying to change people's perspective it's awfully hard to give when you have nothing to give it's awfully hard to dig I've come to realize Wow that's right I realized I was so talented everything's a foregone conclusion that I'm able to give more than I take because I don't need anything from anybody I can get it myself when you're self fulfilling you become super dangerous in the slang term of like you've got all the leverage I do a hundred percent and I think the key with me when I say I'm more of it than anybody ever met I mean what I'm about to tell you nobody has ever disappointed me in my entire life it's a really important like concept that I don't speak to a lot nobody has ever let me down baby no it's actually neither it's a it's I have zero expectation of others mm-hmm and that's I think what I'm realizing is the purest form of giving without expectation like I don't eat I don't give more to you and then I give to your daughter because you have more to give to me back it's just I look at you two the same it's a very weird game man like I equally think that sucks can do as much for me as Schnucks because I don't know how it all plays out but way more importantly it's not even that strategic I'm not looking for the other part I mean this is real and I think it's a match brother like when we meet right yeah you meet me at an interesting point when we meet which is I have a new baby called Vayner sports and you have a lot of leverage to give to me even in that moment I can't get excited about the thought of like print pro quo or like I'm gonna give to him because in two years he'll give like it just doesn't run through my mind I don't want to meet anybody like I'm about to meet the amazing all-time Warren Moon I wanna say one thing which is the ninety one playoff game against the Jets really pissed me off more and I don't want to be your friend like it's not gonna be it's not it's not it's a very weird game it's a strength and a weakness it's why I also don't have mentors and have left a lot of opportunity on the table so when I'm on it's 15 hours tight all in mourning tonight period right but when I'm off for one of our Jets game or when it's vacation time I'm off and I can shut it off and on and I'm winning in those extremes and I believe there's more of that allowed than people think because I think people are being half pregnant of both like they want to work life balance and they're working 9:00 to 5:00 they're coming home or they think like I don't know I just think people have it confused I think there's more victories than the extremes and that's how you balance sound it's like a bridge is [ __ ] extreme you get across from one side to the other is a big [ __ ] ocean in the middle and they're pulling hard as [ __ ] from those two opposite sides that's how I think of myself and I'm trying to teach that a little bit remember the new rule of three snapchat pieces of content oh you weren't in the meeting you were bouncing around when we had our biggest meeting ever guys I'm supposed to be doing way more snapchat content but babban wasn't there for a big meeting last Friday because he was just bullshitting so sorry about that it's my fault ultimately but let's also tweet out boo babban hit me up on twitter and go boo babban like it's one thing if like you know how we got into this cadence he wanted to show something on his big computer right but I'm always I feel like with no joke I'm obviously making jokes it's more about them getting their full meeting if I'm left to meet getting down there they're in deep [ __ ] and we always lose whereas if they're here I feel like they're losing 10 minutes every meeting you know what I mean now on the flip side I should probably go down there because it's like the few times I actually get downstairs so there's also that so it's a real tough decision Alex you make the call you have ### [10:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tq9y6LzooVc&t=600s) Segment 3 (10:00 - 12:00) to pull from opposite directions yes by what oh I have a gold plate one now cousin okay I love how I don't even know what you choose okay and like people's entire lives are about getting if you didn't point to that I had no shot okay what do you think I what no d-roc one scare I want do you rock you love this we're going with Gary Vee I feel like I have a Gary Vaynerchuk so let's go with Gary Vee I was actually smiling because basically my shtick is to razz with you and I'm like happy for you that you won this round Congrats the rock by the way actually this just happened we are not doing enough of the human stuff in the vlog like this stuff happens every day and it's not in the blog because we're staying very prescriptive to bring value I think breaking up you know or maybe I'm also not watching that much so this is a little bit of my perception but what's that um you and I are always on the same page babban that's exactly when you should be filming something for snapchat but once again even though I magic you're a big boy you should have been able to like the fact that you weren't able to pick up on the nuances of what the rule was I know you know said to you what [ __ ] rule like what was confusing of hey bro I even said the number I said hey we're supposed to make three that I literally forbade them said to you can you please recall it for the vlog right now mavin remember the new rule of three snapchat piece of content oh you weren't in the meeting and then I even made a snap about it boo Babin and now I just brought it up again that's exactly when you should be filming something for snapchat and you claim that you don't know what's going on kids excuses are always the wrong answer --- *Источник: https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/18485*