# You're Afraid to Fail Because of Other People's Opinions

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zI6sWDdsYDA
- **Дата:** 13.08.2016
- **Длительность:** 2:00
- **Просмотры:** 72,139

## Описание

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## Содержание

### [0:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zI6sWDdsYDA) Segment 1 (00:00 - 02:00)

Most of you are not scared to fail for yourself. You're scared to fail and then somebody else that you care about is judging you. So literally, you're just scared to fail. I mean, if you want to go deep with me, I'll go deep. It's who are you scared to fail in front of? And my question is, how do I hustle and stop being a [ __ ] and attack the world? But I want to be where you are. So um I have a job that I absolutely love and of course I want to get into doing my own thing, doing my own blog, starting my own hustle and I have this and I know it stems from a fear of failure, but I have this really hard time. I get like crippled when it comes to like executing. The people that are scared to fail stay within a comfort zone and can only hit a certain level. Like I need you to look me in my face and tell me what do you want it? I think what's holding you back is what you think other people are going to say about it. What's blocking you? Some I don't know. Other people's POV. Yes, that's the one, man. But how do I just I can I know I can be where is it like parents? Is it I don't know what it is. Who are the other people? Yeah, it's family. Yeah, man. Got to have that real talk cuz you've already given it to me that it's the fear of failure. Now the question becomes to whom? I'd go talk to that person up front. Look in the [ __ ] face and be like this is what I'm doing and like [ __ ] you for judging me. My friends, I'm telling you something right now. I'm desperately excited to fail in front of you. Dude, you know what the craziest part is? Longterm, I'm gonna win and I just need to make sure if I fail on this step that your response to me doesn't crush me to never let me have a second at that. Deep down, you've seen the movies. That parent normally respect you more for doing it. The best practical advice I've ever given in this scenario, and it works over and over, you sit down, you look them in the face, and say, "I'm about to do this, and the only reason I haven't done it for the last year is I don't want to let you down because entrepreneurship is a crapshoot, and I'm not sure if I'm going to win, but A, I don't really give a [ __ ] what you think, and B, I'm going to learn from it. And C, battle scars are attractive.

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*Источник: https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/19219*