# Dear Dad..

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1haTvD66Vvc
- **Дата:** 19.06.2016
- **Длительность:** 6:30
- **Просмотры:** 55,873

## Описание

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## Содержание

### [0:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1haTvD66Vvc) Segment 1 (00:00 - 05:00)

I guess uh I've gotten some interesting um comments from the Larry King episode that I did uh interview where people said that you know they're like oh you really give your dad some good daps and you know it's funny dad you know as I sit here right now writing this article um uh or at least memoing it because that's how I do it you know I'm giving a lot of thought to um life you know I'm 40 now I don't know if you heard and uh and my kids are getting older and I'm becoming a more experienced dad and I think that you know what we did together uh really from 1993 from 1992 to 201 12 in that 20-year period obviously most intensely from what I would say 1996 to 2010 was we built something together right and uh and we spent a lot of time together and it's you know obviously we got to know each other in the uh late '90s and early 2000s for the first time a lot more because we didn't get to know each other as well in the late 70s early ' 80s because you just worked so hard and I thank you for that Dad I thank you so much for sacrificing and I know you did it in a selfish way cuz I do it too I know that it's your natural state to be an entrepreneur and build for yourself and that you love Wine Library heck more than you even love very close family members but it doesn't take away from the fact of what you did and what you established and how you started the process of our family being here doesn't take away from the fact that when your un great uncle came to America in ear in the late early 70s it inspired you to want to go to America and in a time where many people even though it should have been so obvious didn't want to go and leave and take the risk to go to America or somewhere outside the Soviet Union not only did you but you brought the whole family along with you including your mom and your grandparents and you came to this country and you worked so damn hard and you know it's funny I think through all our frictions in building the business it's super easy and has always been super easy for me to focus on how we're different and what I don't agree on but I've been noticing a trend especially maybe because I don't uh see you every day like I used to and I'm not around as much on an everyday basis with you um but it's been interesting to me over the last 24 months 36 months to start being more in tune than ever with not our differences but our similarities you know it's funny I always talk about I wish there was content and daily V and all this stuff going on when I was in my 20s and 30s and I think what would be really interesting is if I did a mashup right now it would show that back in the day in the late '90s early 2000s I really thought that I was 90% mom and 10% you and that's really just cuz I didn't know you as well Dad and really because I didn't know myself as well and so it's funny to me uh as I'm sitting here kind of like talking to you and uh and talking it out um it's funny to me to recognize how much more similar I am to you than I realized how much we're now officially today I feel like maybe I'm even 50/50 jez go figure and uh you know and I just want you to know how much you mean to me and and even though I think for a long time in my 20s and 30s um I spent a lot of time focusing on what I didn't love as much or how we were different or what I was going to show you that my own ego and my own Pride was so scared for the narrative to be that you're the reason I was successful that you're you know even to this day Dad I know you don't read the comments on the internet thank God you don't because it'd be really scary to see what you would do if you community managed and we I don't think I'd have any fans left you surely wouldn't um you know you'd find it interesting how many people in a YouTube comment will say well don't listen to this guy his dad you know had a liquor store and that's why he's successful I was so scared of that Dad in my teens and my 20s it was the biggest fear I had and now as those negative comments or people that push back are the far minority I find myself being passionate to make sure that your Legacy isn't lost and what you did isn't left behind and it doesn't become The Narrative of just what I've accomplished without the context of what you accomplished and how much you helped me to get there and so I want you to know that and

### [5:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1haTvD66Vvc&t=300s) Segment 2 (05:00 - 06:00)

I it now not when you're 90 or 100 or 130 when you're on your deathbed but I want you to know it now of how much you mean to me and how thankful I am and how much I learn from the way that you and Mom navigated and how I do think my hard work and my hustle is my separation from the marketplace and I know that's a learned behavior by watching how you did it and I thank you from the bottom of my heart and I wish you the greatest father's day today tomorrow the next day and for the rest of your life and I want you to know how huge of an impact you know it's funny at a time where you're probably because I know you won't say it to me but I know how you roll in a time where you're starting to actually recognize the differences between us and the things that I'm able to accomplish on my own DNA and my own skills and the separation that it has from you I find myself pulling closer uh to the things that you did enable and create and dictate and frame up and bring to me and so I thought it was a good time to say hey I love

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