# Finding The Balance Between Passion And Aggression

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hV-e3ohJrb0
- **Дата:** 08.05.2015
- **Длительность:** 2:53
- **Просмотры:** 3,365

## Описание

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Gary Vaynerchuk is a New York Times and Wall Street Journal Best-Selling author, self-taught wine expert, and innovative entrepreneur. Find more at http://garyvaynerchuk.com

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## Содержание

### [0:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hV-e3ohJrb0) Segment 1 (00:00 - 02:00)

nir asks sometimes my passion is seen as aggression how do I Walk the Line do I change to someone more passive nir first of all don't change for anybody now finding that balance of Grace and having that tack to be consumable is a process I somewhere around 8th grade into sophomore year didn't get the right tone anymore I was too intense for my classmates and I liter I could taste it because I have empathy and kind of self-awareness and it's an ongoing process like you know for example my Keynotes are interesting I just referenced them I'm actually evolving that Cadence throughout the conversation of the tone because I'm reacting to the body language of everybody else it's not about how do you become more passive because I'd hate that suck the passion out of you which is a huge variable to success controlling it people saying you're just a little too much I have a feeling that that's predicated on you caring too much for it to be valuable for you I'm going to say that again for everybody the only reason I think that I'm able to pull off this is because there's a healthy balance of caring about you when you care more about your audience than what you have to say you start winning right when you care more about your Global audience listening or watching and it's not about the 15 minutes and what am I going to get out of it and sure in a right hook world it's always there let me actually use this question to define something that I don't think I talked about in the book I live in a world of jab jab right hook let me tell you two interesting things of that I don't necessarily feel that I ever have to throw a right hook and I don't expect the need to throw a right hook based on my Jabs in micro levels at the holistic level I do also there's another part that we never talk about is there which is what happens when the right hook doesn't land I'm actually not disappointed what happens when I do all awesome stuff for these guys or anybody else I don't have any expectation that they're going to do something awesome for me in return eliminating that lack of expectation opens up a world of where you can provide So based on your question based on my intuition My Vibe on this question it has a whole lot to do with you caring more about them the people that are judging you that are telling you to chill out they're telling you that because not about your passion because take it from me and many other people love passion they don't like selfish passion I'm a fire oh crap wait subscribe I need subscriptions because I can't push this many right hooks in Social so subscribe

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*Источник: https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/19622*