# "We're All Doing the Best We Can"

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X28nE02UCMo
- **Дата:** 01.10.2013
- **Длительность:** 3:20
- **Просмотры:** 2,275
- **Источник:** https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/19903

## Описание

This was a rare personal moment for me, talking about my family, my upbringing, and the number one key to achieving a good work/life balance: Communication.


I know you talk about always pushing and doing as much as you can. What about now that you are a dad how do you turn it off when you get home? Tell us about your time management as a CEO and entrepreneur.

Easily my family is everything to me. By the way the reason why I always talk about pushing and this whole work life balance situation is because you are listening to me for 2 minutes and 37 seconds on youtube; the rest of the time. Time management is really difficult especially if you’re an entrepreneur. 

This moment has been really tough for me, because I know this is the 4th child between my sister and I. I know that I don’t have to be there right that second, but if this was our first I would have not been here. I would have cancelled, you are always going to have the battle of making decisions and time management and deci

## Транскрипт

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um my question is I know you talk so much about uh you know never just always pushing and uh doing as much as you can what about uh now that you're a dad how do you turn it off when you get home easily my family is everything to me right by the way the only reason I always talk about pushing and like you know this whole War life balance thing is I know everybody you know you're listening to me for 2 minutes and 37 seconds on YouTube the rest of the time you're pushing very often in the other direction we're all worried about life work life balance it's the by the way it's the only thing I care about this was tough for me today this was this moment has been very tough for me I'm sitting through a tough moment right now now that this is the fourth child between my sister and I know that you don't have to be there right that second to still have it but if this was our first like I wouldn't be here I would have canceled like I've learned a but like you know like you're always battling you're always making decisions do I let we work down and all the people that wanted to be here tonight is that the right value exchange for being there an hour or two earlier like you're going through these every day like I'm struggling with it every day but I'm also not struggling with it which is meaning we're all doing the best we can right and nobody can tell you that like for everybody's like oh I spend more time with my family I'm like yeah but that guy spends more time than you so who won did he win like we're all different we all listen my wife Lizzie is amazingly independent she's just amazingly independent woman who like is very similar to me and like in her stuff and like loves her stuff like she doesn't need me there every second she probably doesn't want you know and so right and so like but it's a balance but I will tell you this there is one answer there's one real answer communication heavy overthe toop Allin communication I check in with her we talk about stuff the rest of my family members and friends you just have to talk a lot and like cuz you're feeling things what are they feeling I you know for a spouse you know heavy communication for your children when they're younger it's hard you can't have that talk necessarily but I'm super aware of the lack of time I spent with my dad growing up I didn't know him until I was 14 I know what it felt like to be the only kid in my league to not have his dad come to his little league games I know what it feels like so um and it was fine by the way you know like that's just who I was cool with that I was like dad's trying to make it like even at that age right and mom was enough and like it was fine I was scared of my dad anyway and so you know I just think it's communication my man it's a very touchy subject I talk a lot about hustle and Allin I always get worried that people you know luckily I think people have a sense of where I sit on family but like you know I mean and it evolves I'm taking every day except for six off in August this year to go up to a house in Connecticut and spend time with my family that's more days off that I took for 11 years in a row combined right so you evolved and different things happen what I don't want to tell you and Nate's laughing is I'm probably going to be emailing every one of you individually in that month asking you to buy my book you know and so like I'm going to hustle as well but I'll be hustling with them around and so you got to evolve there's an evolution to this