# Communication in 2009 [5/15/09]

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Gary Vaynerchuk
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WuXh5auE_Y
- **Дата:** 27.06.2013
- **Длительность:** 12:15
- **Просмотры:** 1,492

## Описание

Family 1st! but after that, Businessman. Just a guy that Loves the Hustle, People, wine and the NYJets.  Check out the new site, and tell me what you think at http://garyvaynerchuk.com.  

You can also find me on Twitter: http://twitter.com/garyvee. 
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Gary Vaynerchuk is a New York Times and Wall Street Journal Best-Selling author, self-taught wine expert, and innovative entrepreneur.

Recorded on: May 15, 2009

## Содержание

### [0:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WuXh5auE_Y) Segment 1 (00:00 - 05:00)

hey everybody Gary vaynerchuk for garyvaynerchuk. com you know I love doing these videos I feel like people get a lot of value out of them um which makes me feel tremendous I don't think I'm a big shot or anything for doing them which is where I'm going a little bit today trying to think about what kind of videos uh I want to do and I wanted to do one today about what I thought made me special somebody on the phone's like you know you're really special I'm like why does you know why do I get so much love because I do feel I get disproportionate love at some level in comparison to people that are out there and I I finally like it kind of hit me on the drive here just like a couple years ago why I decided to do wine Li TV I'm like maybe just cuz I really know who I am like I know I'm not big [ __ ] I know I was an F student I know there's a lot I can't do and I know what I'm really good at and I focus on that so that's where I was going to go but I'm going in a whole different direction today M get your zoom in skills ready M I didn't even really prep this so this could suck a little bit but let's see what's going on here here's what basically happens I use search. Twitter lot and listen you're about to see a lot of things you're going to say I need to have tweet deck you're right something to work all these bubbles there's a million things everybody's always telling me you're right see I'm not good at things as busy as I am I'm not putting myself in a position to have efficient tools I suck anyway so um anyway I search my name all the time on search. Twitter uh Gary ve to see what the conversation is and I just saw um a little while ago Alex um P Gates say other than being a hell of a Salesman thank you uh someone please tell me what makes Gary ve and then he puts I don't read books bu my books so compelling please couple things here first of all true I mean that's a great call right I'm like my new book crushit out let's look that up uh no it's over here you guys can see it the bottom line is my new book's coming out I'm putting a lot out there uh but I always talk about how I don't read and that's true I mean listen Alex and you know this and he's awesome you'll see what's going on here in a minute but you know call spade a spade I can't go up there say I read Seth golden The World is Flat iak I don't read any of that stuff nothing I don't read anything so at the same token I'm putting out content I read Jets Insider I read about the Jets a whole lot I read old boxing results so I consume different kind of media than I put out and I think a lot of people get confused about having to read what you put out that is not a necessity certain people born with DNA to be able to rock out certain categories and I feel with marketing it's just what I know right and so I'm not compelled to read it because I feel like it's in here now listen that doesn't also assume that I know everything trust me I've learned a lot by reading the blog of Spar especially early on and as a matter of fact I want to read more because I feel out of loop sometimes so but I just don't and I want to call SP of spade and I hope that Alex and I and some people take this wrong and I respect that I understand but it's not hypocritical it's you know if you like consuming content about the new world and with details and the most awesome book ever then maybe you want to pick it up but you know I'm making a joke the fact the matter is that's where that comes from but what I did after that was when Alex said that I decided to then search his name um on search. Twitter to see who was responding to him because some people might have not referenced Gary Vee because a lot of times you'll find it funny actually um if people are mad at you or don't like you they'll not reference you so what I did was I searched his name and I found um right after he put that at uh G uh excuse me Gabe K said uh oh you just opened a really [ __ ] can of worms see my blog mentioning the same topic and when I went to Gabe kga uh blog he wrote a whole thing and he wrote on his blog which is really nice by the way Gabe good job um Thursday night was the kickoff party featureing Gary vuk anyone who knows me knows I'm not a fan of Gary there's tons to like and he's one inspiring bass but for one reason I can't click with him um he positions himself differently online than he does in person which I totally disagree with Gabe but fair enough if you feel it you're right I'm wrong customer always right guys I mean anybody consuming your stuff they're right you need to figure out what you're not connecting with uh during his talks Friday he said he doesn't have the answers and he told a story that worked for him and all he can do hope you find what works for you but online he positions himself as a role model with all the answers when in reality he's a wine salesman like to think of myself as a little bit more than a wine salesman M but you know respect that gate and uh and by the way it's true I mean do I feel that can go into any single person's business that's watching this right now and help it grow I do mod I do I flat out do I can crush it but I understand I also don't want to come across as a douchebag which I can at times and I don't want to say oh my God I can do anything for you I've got all the answers cuz nobody has all the answers I don't feel like I position myself that way but I respect that because that's how he feels and I think Gary would be the first to agree that that's not cool and you're right I would um actually I might have jumped in all he is a wine salesman when he gives an idea online many people jump at it believing that it's spontaneous idea ideas are somehow better than their own

### [5:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WuXh5auE_Y&t=300s) Segment 2 (05:00 - 10:00)

and I think Gary would be the first to say that's not cool I do feel that I have some marketing ideas that might be better than other people so I consult for a lot of people that are very smart and they think they're good ideas but I understand where he's coming from I like his tone on it after seeing him in person he wants people to succeed based on what they want not because they copy for btim what he has to say I believe he means well but it's hard to be an online personality and also say I have no idea at the same time Gabe that's where I'm probably not doing a good enough job I'm not saying I have no idea I'm saying I don't have the time to look at every single person's idea and if I did I guarantee I could help people get there uh businesses get there Brands get there but I understand where you're coming from I only bring this up because during the awesome speaker panel he told the crowd to quit college and it's an outdated institution that's going down Jason freed said the next big bug b to burst was education I sent out a tweet saying it's probably the first thing I've ever agreed with coming from Gary replied via Twitter with a smile I was looking at my Twitter during our panel up there and I did see that he then mentioned my comment during his talk which I did he's bummed when people have problems with him I found him at the party that night he looked like he had his plateful a lot of people were coming around I guess so I left it at that so all in all I learned Gary V is human which is very true but I still think he's a Salesman who doesn't have all the answers I mean I'm a Salesman amongst other things that I definitely don't have all the answers and I think he's right in a lot of ways at the same token I hope I defined what I think there I mean I think there's some girth to what I say I don't repeat stuff all that much but I I totally get where coming from I read that and what I did off of that now I want you to follow what I did this is important for a lot of Brands and a lot of personal Brands a lot of Corporations out there a lot of celebrity twitters pay attention to what's happening here I've got a lot going on M I but when there's things like that going on I want to get into the trenches I left a comment Gabe I would love to Yap with you on this you have do you have AOL insta messenger Gabe then um who's Gabe k m let's link that up Gabe K on Twitter said sure I'm I'm a gangas Gabe on AIM I hit up Gabe and I said dude hey man I'm so sorry I'm coming off wrong to you I wish I didn't he writes back it's funny I was actually just watching your most recent episode of Wine Library TV when I heard from you which is pretty cool um so it means I he doesn't totally hate me um I put wild I'm sorry I said some things he said hey man it's really not you I don't think I don't really get I didn't really get you before big Omaha and now I know you're a real guy not just an online celebrity type but I think people look at you as someone with more answers or more suggestions when yourself when you yourself tell people to follow their dreams a bit of a dud uh Duality excuse me between what you say and what people interpret and I think that could be true um Gabe but at the same token I do believe that um you know I don't have the answers everybody knows themselves and I do believe it's passion in the details which is why I wrote the book in the detail details of how to build that brand get into trenches by the way why this video I know right now I'm in the midst of a good video I seen I know people are watching this right now like oh crap oh that I mean you know what I really liked though and what really compelled me to um do this is I said hey would you mind if I did the whole GB thing right now on this he said yeah go ahead on how to handle constructive conversation he goes I think that's a great idea the world needs more of this absolutely see here's the problem when somebody says what Gabe said about me a lot of people get emotional in the world business if you put yourself out there you can't get emotional you're in an unemotional game and if you find yourself as an emotional character you're going to have some interesting times navigating through the world we live in you put yourself out there you have to expect people to have opinions and a lot of times they're right and sometimes they're wrong and sometimes it's in between I think this is almost probably an in between play right but what I love is that Gabe and I through technology are probably in a place now where we like each other so much more and this didn't have to be a flame war and I didn't have to go on Twitter like I've seen a lot of people who've got a lot of followers push ing their Cloud around like ass junkers I'm trying to fix up my language a little bit you know the baby's coming on I'm thinking about this I'm like oh my God I don't think I want to curse anymore and oh my God I think I want all the videos down where I do um a lot of people saying oh I'm going to nobody should like this person unfollow this person let's tear down this restaurant I mean people get a littlehead of themselves this didn't need to be a situation where I said you know hey VC kill Gabe you know who I am this is a situation where I need to one-on-one go out and find Gabe like we did and it got to a really nice place and I really respect Gabe for thoughts and I understand where he's coming from and I'm not doing a good enough job to articulate to Gabe or anybody else that has that mindset so I'm going to work on that I learned something from it um at the meantime I was following along and uh Alex I said I wrote out to Alex before that other than being a hell of a Salesman I wrote something nice like I hope people care about let me actually look since I've in the missed the video I wrote Alex to be honest I didn't totally oh I'm sorry Alex I'm hoping that it's the fact that I care about people and I hustle and help whenever I can and give back and I

### [10:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WuXh5auE_Y&t=600s) Segment 3 (10:00 - 12:00)

don't take myself too serious Alex wrote um to that I respect that I really would have loved to hear you crush the question about net neutrality at Big Omaha but you dodged it which I did but he might have not known why I wrote Alex to be honest I didn't totally understand it I got distracted and didn't hear it in full what was it you want to go on Ustream there was a question and I guess it was net neutrality I didn't even know that something happened either I heard something I was F I can't remember exactly what happened but for a split second which is super rare for me I lost focus of the question and because I didn't know it you know I was like uh I was going to say repeat it I don't know which is usually my move I don't know what happened I thought I might have caught it I got caught I was half pregnant and so he thought I dodged it but I really didn't and then I said can you do Ustream and Alex said still at the 95 9 to5 so I can't Ustream but I'll shoot you an email I feel like an ass for being critical you really do care I don't want to make him feel like an ass and Alex you are not an ass because you know what everybody can have opinions that's what's awesomeness that's why my family left communist Russia you know to live in a world that's extremism about this stuff um this is just a really good example about no matter how busy you are by the way this is not bull crapping M Let's uh let's um why is it not showing the number let's move up right here my man 1100 email oh 1103 52 on red um let's look at the calendar mod the calendar 5:00 leave office you getting this m leave office what's that move Mouse move in Mouse 5:00 p. m. leave office I have a 505 call about a keynote that's going to pay me money it's now 518 and the reason I didn't get there is because I'm caring and it's not about closing the next deal or you know this that or the other thing it's about really giving a crap and using the tools that are in place today because a year ago 3 years ago more likely 3 years ago there's people out there that have opinions about you and you had no way to address them today you do and I address them and I care and I think that's a Difference Maker and that's that see you later this video was good

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