# The Best Response To Insults

## Метаданные

- **Канал:** Bits Of Knowledge
- **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3q0G79dOmU4

## Содержание

### [0:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3q0G79dOmU4) Segment 1 (00:00 - 01:00)

If I were to tell you right now, I hate your purple shirt. It's the most ugliest purple shirt I've ever seen, Stephen. Like, your shirt is so ugly in that purple. Does it affect you whatsoever? — No, cuz I'm not wearing a purple shirt for anyone to see when Apple — That's right. That's a good point. Right. But you see how you already know the characteristics of you. You already know what you're wearing. And it's not just your clothes. I'm wearing my confidence. I'm wearing everything that your parents, your loved ones have instilled and put on you. I am wearing the armor of my faith. I am I have all these other things that I'm wearing. And if you want to say my shirt's purple, that doesn't affect me at all cuz that's not who I am. And so often people get mixed up of arguing about no, I don't have a purple shirt on. — When why would you ever argue with that? They it's that quote by Abraham Lincoln that I love if never argue with a fool because an onlooker — can never know the difference, right? And so it's knowing no, I know exactly who I am and what I'm wearing. — And this sort of speaks to the fact that your reaction determines how onlookers will interpret everything that's happening. — Oh, the worst thing you could do to somebody who insults you is laugh. I mean, what does it do? it I mean it it infuriates them, right? But when the same thing with a bully, a bully says something to you that they know is meant to hurt you and if I were to turn around and say, "Did you say that to embarrass me? " I mean, what are they going to do? They could say yes, they could say no. But either way, you're realizing I'm not going to get any reaction. What you're showing them is for you to do this, it's just not going to be fun for you. It's going to be zero fun whatsoever for you. And so, they'll find that with somebody else. It's always your reaction that's going to determine how the conversation goes forward.

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*Источник: https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/32074*