# Toxic Femininity Nobody Wants to Talk About ## Метаданные - **Канал:** Entrepreneurs in Cars - **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc - **Дата:** 05.05.2026 - **Длительность:** 12:38 - **Просмотры:** 20,482 ## Описание LEARN LIFE - JOIN THE SCHOOL OF UNPLUGGING: https://www.skool.com/the-school-of-unplugging MY 1st BOOK "The Unplugged Alpha, The No Bullshit Guide To Winning With Women & Life:" https://amzn.to/3fIVW3J MY 2nd BOOK: "The Top Shelf Man How the top 5% of men build wealth, live life on their terms, & keep high-value women" https://amzn.to/3JeLZ1b GET PRIVATE 1 on 1 COACHING: https://calendly.com/richard-cooper LEARN ENTREPRENEURSHIP - https://www.skool.com/the-school-of-entrepreneurship GET ON MY EMAIL LIST & RECEIVE A FREE CHAPTER FROM MY BOOK ON 21 RED FLAGS TO AVOID WITH WOMEN & 16 GREEN FLAGS TO LOOK FOR: https://entrepreneursincars.com/red-flags/ WEBSITE: https://www.richcooper.ca/ AMAZON BOOKS & PRODUCTS I ENDORSE: www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-a03634c5 REQUEST A VIDEO TOPIC FOR THIS CHANNEL: https://entrepreneursincars.com/request SUPPLEMENTS: https://theunpluggedalpha.com/collections/all-products Send business/sponsorship inquiries to EntrepreneursinCars@gmail.com ====================================================== Timecodes 00:00 Every Man Is Toxic but Nobody Calls This Out 00:43 The AI Fact Check on the New Bachelorette 01:32 She Cheated on Her Husband in a Soft Swinging Group 02:59 Three Kids From Two Dads and an Open Assault Case 04:01 The Chair Throwing Video 05:09 She Slept With Her Ex the Night Before Filming 06:17 Toxic Femininity Never Gets a Documentary 07:16 From Jerry Springer to The Bachelorette 08:04 She Plays the Victim in the Chaos She Created 09:17 A Coaching Client Lost His Medical Career Over This 10:14 Why You Need to Record Everything 11:00 22 Men Competing for a Woman With More Red Flags Than Qualities 11:51 The 21 Red Flags You Need to Know Before Dating © Richard Cooper - For all business inquires contact EntrepreneursinCars@Gmail.com This video is not to be reproduced without prior authorization. The original YouTube video may be distributed & embedded, if required. ## Содержание ### [0:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc) Every Man Is Toxic but Nobody Calls This Out All right, what's up my brothers? So, we live in an era where every man is now toxically masculine, but there's not a lot of mainstream narrative coverage of toxic femininity. You know, you've seen even outlets like Netflix try to cover and you know, caption the notion of men being toxically masculine with documentaries now. And there was something that was brought to my attention earlier today and I'll just read it out. May I have her put up on the screen. If you want a glimpse into how bad modern dating culture has become 22 men are about to compete on a national television show for a chance to marry a single mom of three who cheated on her previous husband and has an open domestic assault case against her. Little bit more on the domestic assault case in a little bit. I have a video ### [0:43](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=43s) The AI Fact Check on the New Bachelorette that was also sent to me. But there's more. Wait, there's more. Let me just go through some of the factual data that was dug up through this AI fact check. Her name is Taylor Frankie Paul and she's the lead for the Bachelorette season 22 which was announced September 2025 to premiere March 22nd. So, very shortly after this video is being recorded. Now, there's a lot of controversy. The first one being admitted infidelity, the second being a single mother of three with two different fathers, and documented relationship instability. And there's also domestic violence issue as well, too. So, let's just kind of breeze over these. So, the first one was infidelity and soft swinging a scandal. Apparently, she was on a TV show prior on Hulu called The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives as Mom Talk as a Mom Talk influencer. I ### [1:32](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=92s) She Cheated on Her Husband in a Soft Swinging Group don't know if I'm saying that correctly. Anyway, so Taylor was married to Tate Paul from 2016 until his divorce in 2022. They share two children, a daughter Indy born in 2017 and a son Ocean born 2020. Fascinating names. She and Tate, along with other couples in their Mormon influencer friend group, had an explicit agreement for soft swinging allowing emotional intimate connections with others for a short of full sexual intercourse. I mean, what could possibly go wrong with that, right? Taylor publicly admitted on May 2020 later in interviews and podcasts that she violated the rules and she had full intercourse with another man in the group, fellow by the name of Braden, husband of another participant, and developed feelings for him. This was the tip of the iceberg that contributed to the marriage's end and caused multiple other divorces in their circle. She also described it as crossing a boundary she intended set, though she has framed parts of the fallout as mutual issues. There you go. There's playing the victim in the chaos that you created, right? Uh criticism tied to the show detractors argue that history of breaking monogamy adjacent agreements makes her questionable choice for a franchise built on finding commitment, lasting love, and marriage on The Bachelor. Well, that's really interesting from the Mormon community, but uh there's also criticism tied in the show. Some Bachelor Nation alumni, I don't know who Sydney Warner is, but her name is mentioned, have publicly questioned the morals and values of casting her, calling it a sign of franchise dying. The second bit of controversy that was dug up is that she's, in fact, a single mother of three with two different daddies and a documented history of relationship ### [2:59](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=179s) Three Kids From Two Dads and an Open Assault Case instability. So, after the divorce, Taylor began a relationship with a fellow by the name of Dakota, a non-Mormon. They have a third child together. His name is Ever. How about that for the third child's name, eh? The pair have had an on-again, off-again relationship marked by public breakups, mutual cheating accusations, which Taylor has disputed and how she defines cheating and co-parenting dilemmas. She's a single mom raising three young children while navigating two ex-partners. Court records from her divorce with Tate show joint custody and they've been ongoing child support custody battles elements with Dakota as well. Criticism tied to the show, critics point out the logistical emotional complexity of her family situation as incompatible with the show's premise, a lead fully focused on dating 22 men in a bubble. Some also note she reportedly slept with Dakota the night before leaving to film The Bachelorette. Shocking, which her Mormon Wives co-star called a bad sign. I mean, we've got more red flags here than a Chinese Communist parade. And additional elements which came up of domestic violence. And I have a video which I'll show you in just a moment. A ### [4:01](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=241s) The Chair Throwing Video 2023 incident and an arrest. Taylor was arrested after an argument with Dakota. She was accused of throwing a chair. We have a video of that at him that allegedly struck the daughter, Indie. She faced charges including aggravated assault, domestic violence in the presence of a child times two, child abuse, and criminal mischief. She pleaded guilty to aggravated assault and abeyance meaning it can be dismissed if she meets probation conditions through to 2026. Other charges were dropped. I have the chair video. Okay, so that's marked here again. This investigation. Now, apparently, oh, there's a 2023 arrest as well. Was arrested after an argument with Dakota Taylor that they're saying. She was accused, okay. Another one. 2026 investigation. Draper City Police opened a new domestic assault investigation involving Taylor and Dakota with allegations reporting in both directions. No charges have been filed yet as of mid-2026, but prompt pause on Mormon Wives season 5 filming. Her Bachelorette contestants reportedly felt shocked, betrayed, and let down. Anyway, let's have a look at this video of her chucking a chair and having a meltdown with one of her exes. I would not be surprised if this show is canceled by the time I publish this video, this new Bachelorette show. We'll ### [5:09](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=309s) She Slept With Her Ex the Night Before Filming see. I guess my editor will check that before it's released and we'll add it to the screen. All right, so here's the video. It's only 30 seconds long. Yeah, look at you. Look. Yeah, look. This is called abuse. Yeah. See, Taylor, this is all you do. It's the only thing you know how to do is hurt me. Honey, you think this is okay? It's not okay. Holy sh- Let me go. Stop. Dude, leave me alone. Your daughter is right here. All right. Well, let's get on the road and have a little bit of a conversation about what's going on here. Before we get started, guys, I don't take any sponsorships. I will say today's video is sponsored by my supplement store. I'm having a little sip here of my aminos and nitric oxide boosters. You can find that at my supplement store. That's pinned in the description and the top comment below. ### [6:17](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=377s) Toxic Femininity Never Gets a Documentary All right, let's have a word about abusive women and toxic femininity. Like as I said at the opening, there's this pervasive mainstream it's almost naturalized now. It's almost like it's been normalized to the point where let's find outlying events of men behaving somewhat badly to very badly and showcase them front and center, especially if you're a straight white male. You always get, you know, backed in a corner if you're that dude. But, you know, pretty women like this they, you know, they tend to get let off. You know, women have been called the protectic sex and men disposable sex. We've seen that a lot throughout history in some of the many other videos I've covered on topics like this. We know that television shows like drama. They like red meat. They like to showcase that kind of stuff to their audience cuz it gets people tuning in. I think the genre started many, many years ago with the talk show hosts like Maury Povich and the likes and that sort of stuff. You know, the Jerry Springer show where they would, you know, have a panel up at the front and it was ### [7:16](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=436s) From Jerry Springer to The Bachelorette like, you know, you're not the father, you are the father, you cheated on them, you didn't cheat on them. And it's like people would tune in just to see the entire audience erupt in, you know, surprise while the quote-unquote guests would behave exceptionally badly. But in situations like this where it's just women alone, I mean, it's almost like she's rewarded with, you know, you've been on this Mormon show that, you know, the Mormon Housewives after three kids and two baby daddies and she's now looking for love. A single mom of three with two different fathers with an open domestic abuse case. I'll see if my editor can find her mug shot and put it up on the screen. I'm sure it's out there somewhere. She kind of looks like Willem Dafoe. I'm probably pronouncing his name slightly wrong though. I don't know if it's William or Willem, but she kind of looks like a version of Willem Dafoe, if you know what I mean. Almost ### [8:04](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=484s) She Plays the Victim in the Chaos She Created like there's something wrong with her. Anyway, there is something definitely wrong with her. Makes bad choices in life, plays the victim in the chaos that she created, has absolute complete meltdowns even on camera. You know, she knew that she was being recorded by this I think baby daddy number two or three maybe. I don't know. I've lost track, but even with the children in the room from the prior relationship, you can hear this gentleman say, "Your daughter's in the room, you know, just like cool your jets, relax. " He's trying to get her to slow it down a little bit. And I've told many men many a times that you have to protect yourself in situations like that. You have a cell phone, it has a camera, it can film video, it can do obviously do stills. Put on the video, put it up to your chest with the camera facing out, make sure you've got your hand out and you know, let her know back off. Look, I don't want any you know, cool your jets, settle down sort of thing. This is basically what men are being forced to do now to try to protect themselves from physically abusive women. I've had coaching clients one-on-one coaching clients. I remember at one point I had this guy that was in he was in medical school and he was only I think 10 months away from graduating and one of the gals that he had got involved with and she was probably a nurse or nursing school if I remember correctly. She had a very similar type ### [9:17](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=557s) A Coaching Client Lost His Medical Career Over This of meltdown and she was throwing knives and you know, kitchen utensils and things like that at him, which essentially got him thrown out of medical school. He wasn't able to complete his medical degree and get his designation and he was never reinstated after that. You know, he was waiting to appeal it, but because she claimed domestic violence and he was the initiator of the whole thing, he was the one that felt the brunt end of it. This is again, you didn't record it, but this is again, guys, why you need to have your cell phone handy if you've decided to invite a unstable woman into your life and she behaves in an unhinged manner like this. You've got to record it. You've got to protect yourself because in situations where violence is involved and women are they're very violent, guys, you know, they can be exceptionally violent, in fact, and they always get off because whenever the police arrive, she plays the damsel in distress. Well, it wasn't me, officers, you know, he was the one you know, he's the big bad man, you know, men are toxic and masculinity is toxic and he's big and strong and how could I possibly do ### [10:14](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=614s) Why You Need to Record Everything anything? I'm only 5'4" and look at him, he's 6'2". He would you know, he would destroy me. You know, this can't possibly be true, officer. You have to take him away in cuffs and that's usually what ends up happening. But you don't get mainstream media doing documentaries on Netflix on toxic femininity, on women that make bad choices and play the victim in the chaos that they create for themselves. Instead, what do they do? They celebrate women like this and they invite them on television shows like The Bachelorette and they offer her 22 men, which more than likely don't have domestic violence records or open cases against them, multiple kids from multiple women to choose from to marry. And it's a sad state of affairs, right? Like a lot of guys complain about the options on the sexual marketplace when it comes to women and I don't blame them. I don't ### [11:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=660s) 22 Men Competing for a Woman With More Red Flags Than Qualities blame guys that want to check out. keep women at arm's length so they don't invite chaos into their world unnecessarily. You're wise guys, in fact, take it slow. You know, keep her at a distance. See what she's made of, right? Anyway, you guys let me know what you think. What's your experience been in situations like this? I'm sure some of you have been on the receiving end of a woman that's been violent or made some incredibly bad choices and blamed you for it. Leave a comment below. Let me know what your thoughts are. Again, pinned in the top comment there's plenty of useful links to things like my book, which will help you avoid inviting chaotic women like this in your life. In fact, there's a chapter that you can get absolutely for free by opting into my email list on the 21 red flags. And one of the red flags that I wrote about back in 2019, this is well over 6 years ago now, in this book, talking about violent women. You know, it's one of the 21 red flags. You do not want to invite violent women into your life. women ### [11:51](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZj2430X6Uc&t=711s) The 21 Red Flags You Need to Know Before Dating life. You do not want to invite women that have a chaotic history like this, whether it's, you know, uh untried or not, even if it's an open case. You've got to be very, very careful, guys. You're only going to invite women like this into your life as low-hanging fruit, because it's easier for you. And usually, I get why guys do it, but it's unwise to do so. So, take a look at that chapter on the red flags. There's also a 16 green flag chapter, which are the bright triad traits that you generally want to seek out in women. You know, the habits and behaviors that are obviously desirable, you know, the little check signs. So, have a look at all that stuff. It's all pinned below. We'll see you guys in the next video. Peace out. — ever slow up. You want to take [ __ ] I got no love for the fake this. If you want to play tough, then want to hate this. I'll go and show up. --- *Источник: https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/49973*