# When Love Feels Unsafe - Relationship Series ## Метаданные - **Канал:** Dr. Daniel Fox - **YouTube:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wNgwVzYaQU8 - **Дата:** 17.05.2026 - **Длительность:** 1:55 - **Просмотры:** 789 ## Описание Relationship Series Link: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaZELV1Tbq-PfPPEiS64rCLdlEKfaQs2Q&si=x9lieJMTFhGw7fPv Worksheet Link: https://drdfox.com/worksheets/ 🎯 Free relationship worksheet for my email subscribers — Recognize the patterns behind your relationship chaos 👉 Sign up here: https://drdfox.com/worksheets Go deeper at www.drdfox.com — worksheets, courses, and more Do you ever feel like you can’t relax in your relationship, even when things are good? This short introduces my Why You Can’t Relax in Relationships series, which explains why calm, closeness, needs, guilt, and emotional safety can feel confusing when old relationship patterns are still active. 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DANIEL J. FOX Daniel J. Fox, Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist in Texas, international speaker, and multi-award-winning author. He has over 20 years of experience specializing in the assessment and treatment of personality disorders across state and federal prison systems, universities, and private practice. His clinical focus includes personality disorders, ethics, burnout prevention, emotional intelligence, and relationship functioning. 🌐 CONNECT WITH DR. FOX YouTube: https://youtube.com/@DrDanielFox Website: http://www.drdfox.com Blog (Psychology Today): https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-complex-diagnosis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdfox Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/appliedpsychservices/ Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/DrDanielJFox1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drdfox/ Amazon Author Page: https://amazon.com/author/drfox 00:00 Can’t Relax in Relationships? 00:12 Why You Can’t Relax Series 00:18 Six Relationship Patterns 01:11 Learned Patterns, Not Character Flaws 01:28 Watch the Full Playlist ## Содержание ### [0:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wNgwVzYaQU8) Can’t Relax in Relationships? You know when you have those moments and you can't relax in your relationship even when things are good and there's no problems? Well, I created a series that can help you and it's called why you ### [0:12](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wNgwVzYaQU8&t=12s) Why You Can’t Relax Series can't relax in relationships. And there's six episodes and each one goes deeper into the relationship construct ### [0:18](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wNgwVzYaQU8&t=18s) Six Relationship Patterns and why love can sometimes feel conditional, why calm can feel empty after a fight, maybe you've had that experience, why wanting more from your partner triggers guilt, have you ever had that one where you're kind of dealing with that, and why your needs were trained out of you early so you push your needs aside, why unstable feels familiar and steady feels suspicious? Because it impacts a lot of how we look at ourselves, our life, and our relationships that we're trying to build love in. And lastly, why does the closer someone gets the more anxious you become? And it's critical and it remember these aren't character flaws. They're learned patterns and every episode explains ### [1:11](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wNgwVzYaQU8&t=71s) Learned Patterns, Not Character Flaws exactly where they come from and what you can do about it. Like all my videos, how can I give you tools, tips, strategies that can help you out? Now the full playlist is linked in the description. I want you to start with ### [1:28](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wNgwVzYaQU8&t=88s) Watch the Full Playlist episode one or you can bounce around, whatever you want. And the first one is called when love feels conditional because I think that was a great jumping off point because each episode builds on the last. So I encourage you to watch it in order, but I want you to learn that relationship information, what you can do to make your relationship better. So I hope you found this helpful and I'll see you next time. Thanks a lot. Bye-bye. --- *Источник: https://ekstraktznaniy.ru/video/51850*