The Emotional Journey of Being an Entrepreneur l With Steven Dufresne & Eric Murphy from Anthros
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The Emotional Journey of Being an Entrepreneur l With Steven Dufresne & Eric Murphy from Anthros

Gary Vaynerchuk 30.03.2023 9 683 просмотров 290 лайков

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Today's video is a great interview I did with Steven Dufresne & Eric Murphy from Anthros where we talk about the emotional journey of being an entrepreneur and the lessons that come with losing everything, the impact of sitting and standing for long hours on your health, how Steven started Anthros and much more! Learn more about Anthros: https://www.anthros.com/ — Thanks for watching! Join My Discord!: https://www.garyvee.com/discord Check out another series on my channel: Keynotes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vCDlmhRmBo&list=PLfA33-E9P7FCEF1izpctGGoak841XYzrJ NFTs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AwMJ6bScB2s&list=PLfA33-E9P7FAcvsVSFqzSuJhHu3SkW2Ma Business Meetings: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wILI_VV6z4Y&list=PLfA33-E9P7FCTIY62wkqZ-E1cwpc2hxBJ Gary Vaynerchuk Original Films: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLfA33-E9P7FAvnrOcgy4MvIcCXxoyjuku Trash Talk: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLfA33-E9P7FDelN4bXFgtJuczC9HHmm2- WeeklyVee: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLfA33-E9P7FBPjdQcF6uedz9fdk8XKn-b — Gary Vaynerchuk is a serial entrepreneur, and serves as the Chairman of VaynerX, the CEO of VaynerMedia and the Creator & CEO of VeeFriends. Gary is considered one of the leading global minds on what’s next in culture, relevance and the internet. Known as “GaryVee” he is described as one of the most forward thinkers in business – he acutely recognizes trends and patterns early to help others understand how these shifts impact markets and consumer behavior. Whether its emerging artists, esports, NFT investing or digital communications, Gary understands how to bring brand relevance to the forefront. He is a prolific angel investor with early investments in companies such as Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Venmo, Snapchat, Coinbase and Uber. Gary is an entrepreneur at heart — he builds businesses. Today, he helps Fortune 1000 brands leverage consumer attention through his full service advertising agency, VaynerMedia which has offices in NY, LA, London, Mexico City, LATAM and Singapore. VaynerMedia is part of the VaynerX holding company which also includes VaynerProductions, VaynerNFT, Gallery Media Group, The Sasha Group, Tracer, VaynerSpeakers, VaynerTalent, and VaynerCommerce. Gary is also the Co-Founder of VaynerSports, Resy and Empathy Wines. Gary guided both Resy and Empathy to successful exits — both were sold respectively to American Express and Constellation Brands. He’s also a Board Member at Candy Digital, Co-Founder of VCR Group, Co-Founder of ArtOfficial, and Creator & CEO of VeeFriends. Gary was recently named to the Fortune list of the Top 50 Influential people in the NFT industry. In addition to running multiple businesses, Gary documents his life daily as a CEO through his social media channels which has more than 34 million followers and garnishes over 272 million monthly impressions/views across all platforms. His podcast ‘The GaryVee Audio Experience’ ranks among the top podcasts globally. He is a five-time New York Times Best-Selling Author and one of the most highly sought after public speakers. Gary serves on the board of MikMak, Bojangles Restaurants, and Pencils of Promise. He is also a longtime Well Member of Charity:Water.

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Segment 1 (00:00 - 05:00)

I think this is the story that I know you wanted to share let's talk about that be clear he does not want to share this story but yeah I thought your audience would love it I love you I think though I love you thank you for doing that the failed successes seem to be the hot story Vayner Nation how are you we are really excited about this episode of the podcast because we're going to talk about entrepreneurship the entrepreneurial Journey that I know a lot of you are on the highs the lows but we're going to talk about one of my favorite subject matters so before I introduce these two great guests and what they're up to I have to give a huge shout out to Jordan Syed who was my trainer for three years uh Mike vacanti introduced me to him Mike vacanti's now back in my trainer they put out a book recently by the way I should have given that a little more love uh they have some funny stories about me including one time when I ate an obnoxious amount of baked beans at Citi Field um and was not happy with my weight but you know as I got to know these gentlemen and were pondering some fun stuff together I'm very passionate about what they're doing for a living because I grew up with that quote unquote bad back my whole life I was a senior in high school 17 years old and just in the middle of the night woke up and it was the scariest thing that ever happened my back like my back quote unquote went out I had no idea what's going on I was in the most pain that I'd have ever been in my life and I couldn't walk and I like scrawled scraped my way to my parents room had no idea was going on my family is very old school Eastern European Russian so it was basically like just take this Tylenol go to sleep there was no like I mean the amount of compassion kids get now compared to what I got is like I mean like people get a splinter and get 10 times more than I got I couldn't I just want to remind everybody I could not walk it's 3 30 in the morning my mom was like here's some Tylenol go to sleep here's the funny part I didn't go to school that day because that they had compassion for I wake up and I'm perfect I wake up at like 10 30 which is cool because I couldn't sleep for a couple hours I wake up I'm perfect as if it didn't happen I have no idea what happened my mom then says she has to run an errand and I go with her we go to the Phillips Brook Mall in New Jersey and the huge sign at the Phillipsburg Mall says baseball card show today my mom looks at me and thought I made it up to trick her so I could go to the basement but that day became the Journey of what became a 20-year Journey before Jordan side came into my life and taught me about my ql taught me about the stretches taught me about soft tissue did the work and for years and years I've done the work and my back is in by far the best shape it's ever been in ironically I've started playing basketball again we played a lot of basketball over a two-day period And I actually tweaked it for the first time ever and like by the way this morning instead of the chest workout I had Mike vacanti and I did 45 minutes of soft tissue rolling against it so this is very intriguing timing because what I also learned and I know I'm doing a huge intro but I really want to go there because I think a ton of you are going to want to know about and talk about what we're talking about here when covet came I wasn't doing as much as my regular stretching just it was this I was in my house the non-gym setting didn't have me do my warm-up as much I was kind of doing the Bowflex thing and just like all weights I was focused on it and I really felt the effects after 18 24 months of when I was talking to Mike and even occasionally Jordan um it was funny I thought it was the lack of stretching and then the conversation that we're about to get to really started hit my radar when Mike said it's the sitting and that really triggered me because where I got caught was I wasn't sitting a lot when I was 17 16 and so I never Associated my injury with sitting what I in hindsight do understand was starting at 22 because I was building a. com I sat an enormous amount and I reinforced my issues in all those years of sitting um I'm setting that up and now I'm going to introduce these two wonderful gentlemen and it will all make sense of why I've told these stories and what we're talking about here today so men thank you for being on the show thanks for having us why don't you tell the Vayner Nation individually who you are and what you do yeah my name is Eric Murphy I'm one of the co-founders and CMO of anthros and I'm Steve Dufresne I'm one of the co-founders and the inventor and CEO of anthros wonderful so now to connect the whole thing why don't both of you whoever wants to take the mic tell the story of what is anthros go forward Murph yeah I would say just at a very high level we are the company that set out to create the most comfortable supportive office chair the world has ever seen to help people with pain and maximize performance so at a very high level that's the outcome we're trying to produce and why do we have the authority to make those wild claims we worked with the disabled population and worked with people in wheelchairs for the last 20

Segment 2 (05:00 - 10:00)

actually 70 plus years as a collective team so the amount of research data science that had to go into the products that we were making for the disabled population which are the most intense sitters on the face of the planet as you can imagine it wasn't just about Comfort or discomfort it was about in some cases life or death right if you have the wrong equipment of course and you're sitting in your chair all day long every day that's a huge deal so for us what we have is just a different way of seeing sitting and we may not be experts on a lot of things but we can sit here today and say that we know sitting better than 99. 9 of the population so for you know that was an eye-opener for me of course I'd friends who started standing desk startups so I had a lot of thesis of it but I think for anybody listening no question the last 10 years you started hearing like sitting is the new smoking it was a you know thing I've heard in different business settings there's been a bigger conversation to health and wellness over the last 30 years across the board mental health physical health like I don't even recognize popular culture it's wonderful like just the way people what people are putting in their bodies how we're thinking about and it makes sense like you know like I never thought that this would be the way I would look at 47 when I was 15 because 47 year olds just didn't take care of themselves the way we all do and I'm not even like really I'm like solid but like there's people really looking crazy at 50 and 60 and 70 and so this is just great this is why we're living longer it all makes sense but what are the things that we're missing let's start with sitting for a second because I'm fascinated by it what what are the misconceptions what are the realities what can you share with the audience about sitting yeah like anecdotally for the big one setting is the new smoking man that one really chaps us going it's not that bad actually and if you look at the evidence um standing is the new smoking not sitting tell me standing is more detrimental for your spine and your body than sitting because that [ __ ] gravity dissect the human body and you dig in and you once everything to me are you saying so are you saying hence why you're doing this startup are you saying that your chair based on what you're about to tell me next is better for you than a standing desk why when you can stand sure yeah you'd think that's hot standing is important right it is both are very important of course and it's not better than the other put everything in life right we would like to start with the asterisks alcohol better than the other misplay it is bad yeah alcohol not misplayed is solid go ahead easily is important so with the asterisks fair enough when you stand yes you turn on every muscle in your body to stand up especially if you're going to stand properly yes a lot of muscle chains on yes and you can only exert that much energy for so long before you lean on the desk two arms on the desk then you slide the laptop forwards even more and you lean even farther and now you're sitting with a really in a bad back position and then you're crossing a leg and you're leaning this way and that way and you're really not doing what you really know what that out to do you know what's so funny brother you know what just happened in my head when you were saying that huh so cliche to things I believe about human behavior the individuals that are most excited about getting a standing desk oftentimes are looking for the hack that works for them which also then means that they aren't as interested in putting in the work to build up all the muscle that they would need to actually get the advantage of a standing desk because the amount of muscle that one has to create to actually take advantage of like not being fatigued over a period of time and standing it's like this [ __ ] dude I know there's some good [ __ ] under that shirt I can tell I see it from a mile away I know it's good it's like you got to be like that to actually like do something right yeah because if you're standing incorrectly and you're doing that eight hours a day all of a sudden that you're just adding strength to dysfunction right so then the hypothesis becomes cool since we're gonna sit anyway since like that's interesting okay keep going but I would say the second part of that is performance so okay we look into the research we look at in the data and when you are standing you conscious or not you're hijacking some of your ability to focus on what you're what you're working on so when you're sitting in a chair that supports your body you can shut off your muscles you can relax then 100 of your attention is going to what you're focusing on so I think it's from both a pain and you know injury perspective but also just a performance it's an interesting question I'm curious what you're going to say from a standpoint of like it's leg day it's AB day it's like right like that whole thing is there a regimen for certain people that would be nice for them to do a mix like is it good to sit in this chair five days a week but two days a week do the standing desk like I think it's more it's a shorter time frame than it's like why don't you sit an hour and stand

Segment 3 (10:00 - 15:00)

an hour sit in our standing hour sit an hour stand 20 minutes or maybe not an hour of standing maybe even shorter window of standing because you have to take faster so sit in our stand 10 minutes move around then sit down again when you sit well yeah don't slouch if your body allows you have to stand eight hours a day in the perfect position and you can do that without creating any kind of dysfunctional in your body then great you know what's so funny I just thought of something I actually pitched Mike on a startup that plays in this slouching thing so I had something happen a different time and Mike got me this thing right that I put over myself like what is that thing like a posture remind me yeah thank you and like you know it really tight like whatever and I don't remember it might have been my back thing but I just remembered telling him like yo we need to create a product where like I was like my bigger problem is when I'm sleeping I go fully Primal into baby mode I'm like I'm so [ __ ] up I'm like baby Yoda like I'm I don't know what I'm doing but I'm doing something I'm with you there I'm so bad dislocated show and I was like bro I have to like and actually the shoulder thing now I'm I used to sleep through the night all the time lately this is very recent last six months I'm waking up once or twice a night because my shoulders and I don't know like I'm actually doing all the right things more I don't know what I did that made this thing happen but I was like Mike we need I need this thing I want to sleep with it and it's funny you should mention sleep with sitting right now because those two are best friends and most people just don't realize it notice what I did no YouTube a great segue thank you brother so wait so after you guys are done with this startup can you create like a sleeping chamber that makes me like be like a vampire and just like be pot like honestly the thing that's cool about the Sleep one is like I just would love to be straight as an arrow for seven hours because I'm sleeping anyway it feels like I'm not doing the work which is fun that's the problem with the world Health Fitness posture you know all of it Mental Health people really struggle doing the work that doesn't come natural to them I have unlimited Fitness buddies who all look like you two who like just don't want to actually work eight hours a day on their business and I laugh because I'm like they're like asking me every shortcut the same way I'm asking them like hey can I get like the apple cider vinegar [ __ ] or can I get like AB implants or can I like what's this new thing that every [ __ ] person is now taking so they don't [ __ ] eat the diet like the [ __ ] like people just always looking for the shortcut which is why this intrigued me and why I want to do this show which is like there's not a lot of things that are easy actually to make your life better it's why medicine's so like loved and revered like you take it and things can get better this kind of felt very practical to me I'm like wow especially when Mike put the propaganda of like and not the propaganda like start I use that as a slang term so I want to be clear here when Mike educated me of like the sitting thing is a thing and it makes sense because my this like whatever what's this like what's that yeah but like this yes the psoas that [ __ ] the amount of work I have like that [ __ ] is so tight yeah and that's all from this horse [ __ ] like Anyway nonetheless you can do yoga and pilates and put in the [ __ ] work which everyone should but what really [ __ ] me up was I did put in the work for three years and fixed so much and then one 18-month window of a global pandemic where I changed my behavior really it really was I'll be very Frank with you disheartening because it's cliche I lost 20 pounds over a year and a half and I put in all the work and [ __ ] nine months later it's all back because you changed your behavior back to the bad behavior that's probably the thing that I most want to talk to you about which is like because I think it's a by the way for everyone who's listening there's a very selfish episode for me because I hope this brings an idea for you that's your version of this startup for them meaning I think there's still a lot of inventions to be made that will like put training wheels to people on things that are hard let me give you like another comp that nobody talks about the reason I thought musically was going to be big which ended up becoming Tick-Tock and I get all that credit is because I understood that it was helping people make content easier that if you look at what happened with social media over the last decade the tools now between green screen this and filter that and music this and split screens that it's become a production infrastructure it's an Adobe suite that helps people that couldn't do what I did which was like you just had to go and talk and that had to carry the day so I love this concept of training wheels things that make things easier this chair really helps everyone but someone like me who's really emotional about his back pain over the last 20

Segment 4 (15:00 - 20:00)

years it's like really an interesting product and I'm sure a lot of other people out there a are going through this but then B to be honest because I know my audience here I'm hoping this episode inspires them to do their startup that helps people do something they don't want to do speaking of inspiring tell us about the adversity story oh I'd love to but I'd like to touch quick on something because he said the posture trainer please and sleeping and tied into the mattress and posture training yes and that's exactly what a chair that you can do this can help you sit up better actually let's talk about the show we're kind of like yapping like I have this whole my own agenda right now which is I'm hoping somebody invents something so profound and they say my podcast didn't I get all the credit then there's also I really want you to talk a little bit because I know a little bit about backstory because I think a lot of people go through adversity before they get to their place but actually one more time the. com of the chair and more importantly like what does it actually do throws yep. com yep and it's just a play on the Greek root word of human anthro and that was our principle for Designing the chair it wasn't to design the chair for an office worker or a gamer or a blogger it was to design a chair for a human being and we all have the same needs we don't have green blood and purple blood we all need the same kind of input love and a chair can hurt you or it can help you a chair can feel comfortable you can fall asleep in it or it can be like a park bench and be painful where you can't wait to get off of the dang thing and that's what we tried to invent as a chair that can help change your posture over time and you're feeling that when you make those little adjustments to the two backs you were changing your posture and use it as a tool instead of the strap that your trainer had to put on you're using your chair to get your which is so much more scalable yeah nobody wants to wear a weird strap at night yeah but people just sit in chairs yeah so change your posture over time and actually we worked pretty hard to get the chair registered with the FDA as a sitting orthotic it is qualified to change your posture over time and one of the big claims that we make going try the chair feel the truth this is the softest cushion you're ever going to sit on is this it the human this is back to like muscle gain and all the stuff I learned like the way your body mind thing works you're saying micro deposits on a daily basis that over time actually changed the way you're like walking and sitting and standing yeah that's yeah definition of an orthotic is changing posture over time which is what this chair allows you to do on top of that we guarantee because we have testing University Testing we took all of the leading office chairs that we could find threw them into a seating engineering lab and said can you guys test these and see which ones perform at the highest level in terms of measures of comfort and you can guess who won that who won that test a bunch of the bunch of wheelchairs sitting nerds of course tell us something you know I think this is a story that I know you wanted to share let's talk about that sure be clear he does not want to share this story but yeah I thought your audience would love it I think they'll uh thank you for doing that the failed successes seem to be the hot story tell us uh I'm 47 I just turned 47. yeah and uh this is literally the anniversary 20 years ago I was 27 years old and I started a business uh bringing a power wheelchair to Market with a really unique feature on it that kind of uh raised the seat up 22 inches sounds kind of weird like a an accordion thing but if you're sitting all day long you can't reach in your upper cabinets you can't see somebody eye to eye and on and on right so raising them up to function in a walking world is a no-brainer so brought this thing to Market was doing really good raised uh what 27 28 raised uh I don't know almost 2 million dollars had seven partners and launched it was traveling all over the U. S showing the chair off to all the VA hospitals things were going great and I came across an investor uh kind of on a fluke a new angel investor and I was reading Inc magazine 2017 entrepreneur of the year and it was a local Wisconsin guy that had done really good for himself and then there he talked about man when I was uh if I could go back in time I I'd work with the banks differently I changed my whole relationship and I was like I wonder what he means by that because I'm in the startup mode what should I know so the old-fashioned way I wrote a letter with a pen and licked an envelope and put a sticker on it and uh lo and behold he reached out and invited me down to meet him shocked that he responded right that guy's a billionaire I think he'd give me the time of day but he's the kindest guy I've met in the business world so rode down there met the guy shook his hand told him my story and in one hour uh that was it I wanted him to be a part of this business and he wanted to be in

Segment 5 (20:00 - 25:00)

and buy everybody out and what can I do for you what do you need right now to keep winning I said I need like 25 Grand you know my monthly burn rate's hot right now and he's like okay stop by the front desk for a check for twenty five thousand dollars and we'll talk in a couple weeks it's like what did you just say you don't even have my home address I don't even know if you have the spelling my last name you want to give me a check for 25 000 on a handshake man of course you're like the fairy Godfather right so uh this relationship went on and a number of months of doing exactly what he said and uh um The Story Goes that literally uh you learn the no deals done until it's done right that simple little adage yep uh literally a handful of days before the contract was signed by both of us he was buying all my partners out and going to move down by him and you know right off into the sunset yeah with this power wheelchair we're going to change lives within a billionaire background I mean how much more can you ask for in your early 20s yeah early 20s in 2017 it was 2000 yeah I was 27. yeah I was listening carefully yeah that threw me up for a half a second but I thought that's what it was I just want to clarify it for the audience so here you are you're I mean you're someone who gave you 25k kind of blindly like it it's everything's checking the boxes you're literally within the week of him buying out the rest of investors at the same valuation or an inflated value ah it was going to be inflated yes they're exactly right and I got a phone call saying that he had a tragic death out of the blue right you know oh so you know this was setting up as like it was funny the way you were selling the story like that I thought you were building up the drama of like this was the nicest guy but it wasn't the nicest guy oh no he's in business that's what I ever met like you want to talk about the definition of philanthropy that is this guy I almost jumped in and said right you know if it's too good to be true it is that's why you didn't say that holy [ __ ] you're a week away from this thing and this gentleman passes away tragically yeah and we mentioned it was 07 right so I'm going into 08 January of 08 right the whole world changed the whole world did change and just like maybe it's happening now and that burn rate was still there right and he owned like 30 other companies and you know wow it's just Faith you know you can't change fate it was meant to be exactly so hard to swallow yes especially when you felt like you were the top of the world right you know a day before and now I'm very into my thesis of like gratitude for like you just don't know like seemingly like every you know yeah you don't know you know this is very thank you by the way for making him share this real talk because the answer might not be even now like how long did it take you to comprehend that to get to a place where you could say it was just meant to be versus like how did this happen to me what are the odds all that stuff oh that's can you sorry to interrupt can you slip in the quick little story of the moment where you kind of had the this is the worst about can you tell the worst moment of the story Steve it's kind of the bottom moment where you look at how old was the General when this gentleman when he passed Maybe 60. terrible okay go ahead okay so um this moment happens right and uh it only takes a handful of months to go by before uh they six seven eight months go by and they're like sorry we're liquidating all of his companies unless it dealt with the main company and yours doesn't qualify as one of those so now I've been I don't want to say strung out but the burn rate was going the deals was done but it's not done now and now I'm in like June July of 08 looking for money okay and my existing Partners were Mortgage Bankers uh Builders all in the wrong trades basically to keep funding this company so I was done I was just my goose is cooked so I was the managing director of the LLC and as you know all bankruptcies slide through that individual so I took the loss as did my wife at the time of the business failing and um that was a lot of strain on us and that was the end of the relationship so the divorce kicked off at the exact same time as this and uh now I was asked to turn in all my assets right so this is the moment that uh is the tough one it's a drive your vehicles down to the auction please okay so I drove the first one down and was very embarrassed back then I was kind of down and out so I hitchhiked my way back home took about an hour or so got back home and thought that was stupid I got a better idea I'm gonna put this moped in the back of the other vehicle and I drove the other one down to the auction and pushed the moped out and uh you know thought okay it's normally an hour drive on the expressway

Segment 6 (25:00 - 30:00)

and I've got to take all these country roads in January yeah in Wisconsin with you know my best coat and pants on that I can in a snowmobile helmet no goggles and you know looking like a nut job who's riding a moped in January Wisconsin to begin with let alone crying the whole way I also would love it yeah just literally crying the whole way home I mean the crocodile tears you know freezing your face and chipping them off and especially when your brain up you know three weeks earlier I don't know the timing here yeah but like how many days earlier you think it's completely on the other side of the equation yeah it happened so fast yeah and then you get back to the the building it's like well I don't have a place to live and all that I have left in this building is a pallet with like six bags of clothes on it two speakers my gas grill and my yellow lab happy to see me yeah and uh the Dig back question is easy uh and you say it all the time you don't have much time to feel bad for yourself when you start getting hungry no job no checking no savings no Bank no cars no house no place to stay you're homeless it's just you and your dog and you're hungry so what did you do you hustle you take any job what did you stay I couch surf at some friends houses you know started far and narrowed it in you know you can only do that for so long too and there's no job that I wouldn't do I mean clean gutter clean up poop yeah pressure wash yep put a floor in what do you want done so for two years I just hustled and then what happened and then what's really interesting is this yeah what was supposed to happen the interesting thing is you could say that I was a little bitter than like this wheelchair thing ruined my life okay there is some of that of course you're a young man at this point yeah like ruined my life someone in their late 20 this is why I talk about all my content like when you're 29 you're not gonna walk around Earth with a 47 year old you know perception you're not gonna walk around Earth with a 74 year old perception you're definitely in like that place 29 30. you know where you know there was totally comment today on my social I don't know why it triggered me so much literally it's what I get all the time oh I know what it was I did my there was a very viral video for me years ago of me outside saying this could be the last Monday of your life you could have been a bus it went very viral at the time for a lot of people today it's still to this day it was the first time they ever saw me because it was when Facebook fan pages were going and we hit and we reposted on Instagram for the first time in forever and literally there was a I was just looking at it this morning like 24 hours later just kind of reading some of the comments and someone's like you know like yeah but like not really because like I am lost I'm 25 and all my friends are doing X Y and Z and the thing that I always find interesting is especially at 28 29 30 [ __ ] up everyone under 30 in such a wild way every single person 17 to 29 has this crazy bad relationship with 30. as if it's like I'm 47 and I'm like 30 is a child right and the world's younger now and a lot of people do like live more child life at 30 than they did back when everybody was getting married at 20 and would have 10 year olds and 30 just you know two generations earlier but you know at that to be back to your story because we're of that same age like not only were you struggling those two years some of your high school friends and some of your acquaintances and cousins and Friends really quote unquote had their life figured out already oh they did and that really [ __ ] with people that's where people get real right people get really down on themselves especially when and this is why this story is so important thank you for making me share this because this is good for my audience especially when a month or two or three earlier youth thought you were going to be ahead of all your friends this is com this is what I why I'm obsessed with comparison comparing your life to anybody else's life is the great mistake of everyone's life because it will put you in such a bad place regardless either you'll think you're too good which is maybe where yeah I don't know you like maybe where you were a month earlier because you're like wait do I have this big wait everybody hears which is always bad that's a vulnerability or the one that's much more prominent which is you think you suck because you called out the most successful person you know of your I love how people do it Gary you don't get it my neighbors sister's best friend just built a million dollar company I'm like what about your 80 other loser friends why don't you compare it to yourself like people will pick out the one Mark Zuckerberg like Mark Zuckerberg what the [ __ ] are you talking about all 20 of your roommates suck why don't you compare yourself to them like why people just love to bash themselves like for no [ __ ] reason in

Segment 7 (30:00 - 35:00)

your late 20s when you get to that zero of a place that fast from a place that was on the verge of putting a lot of paper value around you must have been challenging it was but I really go back to I was like how'd you do it it's like man I was just hungry and I wanted I'm a doer I want to take care of me I didn't want to of course fall upon the system so guess what I'm gonna sling concrete I'm gonna put your roof on for you I'm gonna remodel your kitchen for you but I'm taking care of me and in this case it was just me and my dog yeah of course how did you so what happened next how did you get to this point well that's a quick transition believe it or not after two years it just side jobs hustle and just staying alive I mean literally um the company when I was making this power wheelchair I designed everything but the seating I bought the seating system from another Local Company okay called The Comfort company okay and this company reached out to me you know two years later going hey man what are you up to you you're not doing the wheelchair thing anymore I am like no I'm not why don't you come work for us interesting no wheelchairs ruin my life no thank you oh no [ __ ] at first oh yeah it was a salad no you were still there I was yeah so you want to know how long I can tell you two years later apparently I was still a little bitter because I said no to him and literally the the weird part is I got in the car politely told him no hey man thanks for the offer but I'm gonna find something else to do wheelchairs yeah man that might dig I get maybe two blocks down the road and I had the most thermal nuclear emotional blow up out of nowhere I had to pull the car over and I had no clue why and it was more like how dare he make me think about wheelchair people you are again I can't believe that he's trying to make me come back into this thing no it ruined my life and then you know two weeks later after titling your friends and family they're like you're an idiot this is who you are you love this it's who you were meant to be just go take the job and get your ass back in there and I did and they saved me and then I got back into the wheelchair Community again serving them this time not with power chair now it's with seating how did you go all the way back how did you first get into the wheelchair Community before even before how did you invent that like what was your first experience with it that's a quick one Uncle Bob my Uncle Bob um as a disability I've grown up around it he's been in a manual chair power chair his entire life and he's a he is an entrepreneur he owns a landscaping company and climbs on and off tractors and skidsters equipment and if you saw him you'd go I cannot believe this guy does this so you want to talk about the definition of tenacity it's a blob yeah I saw this chair that goes up and down I was like man if Uncle he had one of those or anybody like him scratching your own inch from you it's just like profound all right we're gonna run out of time what have we not we didn't get we're like that was by the way you should not do this chair business and you should be a professional Storyteller because that was extremely good now CMO I know why you can do that I was like why like that wasn't pretty audience that was putting him in the platform of what he should really be like why does everybody want this story I just want to sell chairs I did this story you're a very good Storyteller that was really cool um so actually because I'm going to get rushed out of here like what didn't we touch on that you thought of like obviously wanted to talk about like first I'm like pretty sure before I die I will have a soft tissue business because you know not to the level of the emotion I think comes with an Uncle Bob who's in a wheelchair but like my back was foundational in my life for 20 years like I didn't I didn't sit on a certain side of airplanes for 15 years because I knew if I fell asleep that there was a chance it could lock yeah right so it was a real part of my life like you know really you know it's amazing what you'll just accept I was just like that's my life I have a bad back and it was just like so solvable through just tissue work and stretching and like strength and it's just like I'm like wow [ __ ] and this is why I'm so passionate about this single podcast the thought of like you know at some level you guys care quite a bit of people get this chair I'm just trying to get people educated in my audience about like the chair thing and like yes of course it'd be awesome if they get excited about this but like I just want people to know yeah it's kind of like in the 70s I'm sure someone was like this cigarette thing is not as good as people think like we should talk about it more or like the things we're going through now like this this the way we're sitting is a real thing and like really matters what do we what do we not touch on in the last two minutes here that we should touch on anything set out we could probably tie that into go right from the comfort company thing now that's yeah we could just jump into how did you do something we did seating for 10 years right and you guys met where he was yeah we're mad at that seating company 15 years ago so oh you were there yeah he was always product yeah product side of things that was marketing and so we brought products to market for the last 15 years together

Segment 8 (35:00 - 38:00)

that's awesome yeah at what point did you know you guys wanted to work together like in a different capacity yeah I mean I think uh man that was probably 10 maybe eight years ago we started transparently he was uh upset at our then president yeah and he said he seems like that kind of guy I think he's still got some feelings and they're like I'm watching him carefully I'm not sure I can turn it anymore that's it I'm out of here I got an idea we're out of here it's like we should do office chairs do you think that's entrepreneurial passion do you feel like that's engineering DNA like hey this isn't as good as it can be like what triggers that I'm kind of the curious guy that likes looking for problems then finding Simple Solutions big Solutions my wife would tell you that my favorite phrase is I got an idea yep yeah well I mean I know we're short on time here but I think and throw us what we want we just want to be part of peop for their people who know what it's like to wake up at 4am and work till midnight the people who are chasing their dreams sacrificing everything getting zero recognition for the people like you who've experienced chronic pain yeah and will never take for granted not being a pain again we think that we can be part of you know part of that journey and we're cheering those type of people on I love that brother a couple things there's so many little thick stories I want to tell I used to when I first started working out it was wild Jordan pointed this out to me the weight like when I'd have to pick it up to do like some sort of thing on the right side I would just pick it up and on the left side I would pivot my entire body to be able to do it because I couldn't do it straight yeah and like I'm bringing this up at the like random thoughts here because I'm just I'm telling people like I don't think people realize that they don't need to accept being in pain because they don't think they have time to fit or money to fix it not that this chair is [ __ ] inexpensive but like it's like to me it's just so [ __ ] worth it like grabbing my luggage from the top out of the air like it's just like it's an everyday thing when you don't realize you know hey I honestly I also think I'm doing a PSA for just gaining strength like like it's really scary how big of a deal that is especially legs like we're talking about this off line like it really matters and nobody wants to do leg days like I literally when Mike says Bulgarian but squads I literally like cry still every month later not walking down steps but [ __ ] it's so worth it so like you know both gaining strength just make this very broad we talk so much about perspective and mentality on this show this is going to the other side of it which is like you just don't have to be in this situation like there are a lot of ways to do and I do think sitting like is a category of conversation that needs to have a lot more talk and like obviously the chair but there's obviously other variables that you could be doing and I think I hope this inspired some people to actually go down this rabbit hole because I'm looking forward to the DMS and emails in a year because it is a big deal for me and for a lot of other people and uh and I'm cheering for you guys and I wish you well yeah thank you very much thanks I appreciate it

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