Why You Need to Put Your Own Happiness First

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Why You Need to Put Your Own Happiness First

Gary Vaynerchuk 10.01.2019 67 939 просмотров 2 660 лайков

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Businesses have problems scaling because of one main thing: Ego. So many business owners and operators create arbitrary standards in their head of who they need to hire or what kind of content they need to create predicated entirely on their own subjective opinions. The reason I was able to build a $150 million+ company in several years? I had no ego when it came to who I hired or what type of content I put out. I let the market decide what’s good and what isn’t. — If you haven't joined my #FirstInLine community, you need to jump on it ASAP! By joining #FirstInLine, my messaging program, you get details on exclusive giveaways that I'm doing, updates regarding my keynotes/conferences, and more ;) You can join here: https://garyvee.com/JoinFIL Thank you for watching this video. I hope that you keep up with the daily videos I post on the channel, subscribe, and share your learnings with those that need to hear it. Your comments are my oxygen, so please take a second and say ‘Hey’ ;). — Get my newest shoe here: https://garyvee.com/GaryVee003 — Follow my journey as an #entrepreneur here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLfA33-E9P7FA-A72QKBw3noWuQbaVXqSD — ► Subscribe to my channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=GaryVaynerchuk ►Check out my second channel here: http://www.youtube.com/askgaryvee — Gary Vaynerchuk is the chairman of VaynerX, a modern-day media and communications holding company and the active CEO of VaynerMedia, a full-service advertising agency servicing Fortune 100 clients across the company’s 4 locations. In addition to VaynerMedia, VaynerX also includes Gallery Media Group, which houses women’s lifestyle brand PureWow and men's lifestyle brand ONE37pm. In addition to running VaynerMedia, Gary also serves as a partner in the athlete representation agency VaynerSports, cannabis-focused branding and marketing agency Green Street and restaurant reservations app Resy. Gary is a board/advisory member of Ad Council and Pencils of Promise, and is a longtime Well Member of Charity:Water. Gary is a highly sought after public speaker, a 5-time New York Times bestselling author, as well as a prolific angel investor with early investments in companies such as Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Venmo, and Uber. Gary is currently the subject of DailyVee, an online documentary series highlighting what it’s like to be a CEO and public figure in today’s digital world, as well the host of The GaryVee Audio Experience, a top 100 global podcast, and host of #AskGaryVee, a business and advice Q&A show which can be found on both YouTube and Facebook. Gary also appeared as judge in Apple’s first original series “Planet of the Apps” alongside Gwyneth Paltrow, Jessica Alba and Will.i.am. — Check out my Alexa skill!: http://garyvee.com/garyvee365 — Follow Me Online Here: 2nd YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/askgaryvee Instagram: http://instagram.com/garyvee Facebook: http://facebook.com/gary Facebook Watch: http://facebook.com/garyvee LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/garyvaynerchuk/ Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/garyvee Website: http://garyvaynerchuk.com Soundcloud: http://soundcloud.com/garyvee/ Twitter: http://twitter.com/garyvee Medium: http://medium.com/@garyvee Podcast: http://garyvaynerchuk.com/podcast Wine Library: http://winelibrary.com Official Merchandise: http://garyveeshop.com Subscribe to my VIP Newsletter for exclusive content and weekly giveaways here: http://garyvee.com/GARYVIP

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people don't understand you know that's the thing I want you to clip that part because people don't get it I've been I've lived my truth you got your perspective I just want to be happy don't you want to be happy so how can I make more stuff for

VOLUME SUBJECTIVE QUALITY

myself when I haven't found anybody that can create the content for the family because you're using ego uh Perfection and judgment to your scale do you do the same thing no I'm the reverse the reason I'm a monster is I can I don't tell them to do anything cuz I take volume over my subjective quality there's a very specific reason it's very interesting I'm a very instram you know that's exactly what's probably going to happen and and it's to your point it's a very smart observation a very specific reason why I popped in a am continuing and will continue to pop in a different way is I value the volume over the Perfection because I know that there's because even if you hire her me and we come in and do a 7. 9 of your 10 mhm right it's a net game cuz I know how to scale because if you and I'd like you to when you come and visit my dad liquor store 10 minutes from your house that big building I built Wine Library this 40,000 foot double deck wine store it was cuz I know how to scale this Insanity from 0 to 150 million in seven years is scale ability it's and creators struggle with it because and especially when it's your own subject that's what blows them all away this is me and I don't watch anything yeah right it's true right I don't watch a single thing so once he walks away who they do Ed now the one thing I have creative control over is my Instagram right now where I will write the copy I write all the copy right and I will not post things they send me cuz I'm not feeling it and at our best and we're still not there yet I want to title the Mimi stuff at the top because I'm good at copy it's how I am good you engage every single like when I DM back when I heart a comment that 100% if it's Gary B it's that's why I created the team Gary B account you guys could create a family account and have her run it you see what I mean but Gary that's me that's why I created team Gary ve that's why I build up dck and all the other people for scale I'm not scared to lose them I want to put them on I'm all Karma I'm all good I'm going to give you every best piece of advice what I'm telling you and you'll appreciate this I'm glad the way this conversation is

WORK LIFE BALANCE

going because I would assume in a family Dynamic just promise me one thing that you're making your decisions for yourself first and with and then for her second and then everything will play why I put the family first then that's fine can I tell you something that I really believe people who put their family first at the expense of their happiness always in a longterm lose but that is my happiness then you've put in your happiness first got it and for me I do the same thing look at my Twitter by Family First I believe the way I'm going to bring the most happiness to my kids is by showing them what a happy life lived is like everybody's got their own way yeah so that's great so how do you fit it all in whatever feels right on making sure my kids and wife are happy and I'm happy to the best of my ability and never over judging myself in a one day one week one month or even one year period cuz life is long mhm and I'm not trying to check a box for the camera or for my parents or for anybody else and that's where I see a lot of families losing people are posturing for everybody else yeah they're worried about you know how much judgment I get for my work life balance plenty I'm sure yeah plenty and I'm like listen and you know I'm a funny guy I'm like you know you've got a sense of me because you can like it's not like I'm like [ __ ] you it's like yo I really understand why you think that but you don't know me yeah you don't know what's going on in my bedroom M like do you know how many people come home at 6:00 and check the box but are like alcoholics in a man cave or like don't give a [ __ ] or not like so that's how I balance it out of peace of mind that my intent is pure as hell and that life is long yeah I actually think the sooner they can accept judgment and know how to deal

ACCEPTING JUDGEMENT

with it right the better I actually think the better right like if you teach them like self resect and empathy and kindness and like if they learn how to deal like better cuz that's who I am all my D's and Fs I don't know where my that's my prize possession by the way I don't know where it is right now my report card that's my you know why there we go you know why you want to see a report card from new New Jersey report card this is my PRI possession and I'll tell you why because it allowed me to get judged I was a loser by the system this is my high school four years DFS I was taught adversity from the get right I think it's the advantage I look at minority females I'm like if the world actually understands what's really going on with the internet I actually think it's going the other way now I think the whole world's flipping yeah like I really believe that like I like Goosebumps believe yeah right like these are goosebumps I believe it because I think adversity is the foundation of success I was doing setup comedy for a long time in LA and I was bigger than

ADVERSITY IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS

you were probably in 2008 I believe you I commented on a video I didn't like it you commented back to me it was a negative comment towards you like you allowed or something and I'd never forgotten how sincere I thought that was that you commented back to me and you were nice like you just said maybe it's not for you or something and I felt really ashamed cuz I'm like I was kind of mean I never forgot that it was 2008 I me I never told you that I bigger than you I was a fulltime Comedia brother and you put me in my place and I and think about and think about how you don't know what that just meant for me doing the right thing is always the right thing every word that just came out of my mouth is based on the same [ __ ] I can't wait to run into you guys and like and like tomorrow a bunch of times but in seven years you're like that 01 was it I know I'm right you know how crazy it is to have the internal happiness to be able to take a negative comment like you can't imagine what that meant for me because that was 10 years ago you did that people don't understand you know that's the thing I want you to clip that part because people don't get it I've been I've lived my truth you know yeah I I really I used to want to dislike you so much because you got the best of me because I was mean to you and I was probably a bit cuz I was a comedian I get it and people jumped in and they were like so I was ashamed that I said this to you and your response to me was just like something so authentic and um years later I wanted to dislike you I mean this is I totally get it brother years ago I was on board I'm like man this guy's great I love introduced me I it CU you don't know we're so much alike the I totally dude I totally get it and so many things are circum and you'll appreciate this I don't think I'm so great I think my parents are so great and America's so great that's what made me so it's the reason I have bravado and confidence but humility is it's why I'm so passionate about you guys winning cuz that's what you're going to give a [ __ ] about are you rolling what's great about Gary is that he cares that's it simple you care a lot I care a lot if curiosity when you have so much love and you're good you're like you literally like if I was to man like to draw it I'd be like well all right here's all these Hearts I don't need them yeah that's right yeah all right take care you're welcome take care

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