What Does Happiness Look Like? | DailyVee 504

let's do it but borrows the gum come I love to eat this gum this is what now 8600 to 32 years old Turkish you got your prospective I get very upset when people try to suppress people from hard-working without realizing that that's what makes that person happy and do I believe that hard work is an essential part of the kind of success that people define I do I think working so many hours that it burns you out that you need to retire or quit or you're unhappy and perpetuity is bad of course I do I think this is a self-awareness game and actually I think it's a much more interesting game of like do you know why you're working or what are you trying to achieve I would go crazy sitting on a farm in Middle America or doing 28 weeks of vacations not what makes me happy but I unbelievable I'm happy for the people that makes it happy I love the process of building something the way I want to build it I think it's about self-awareness I think the cool part for me is clouds and dirt was really the entrepreneurial framework that I live in which is like have your dreams and your aspirations like live in the clouds but if like one thing I admire about you and the other people that we've given them to is like you're willing to get in the dirt right your background of like how you were successful speaks to that athletically but then like as you made the transition to an entrepreneur and a personality like I see that in you work ethic like not being too fancy like putting in the [ __ ] work the dirt one thing I try to remind people is like talent is part of this like also for whatever reason you were fortunate enough to figure out a talent you had yeah and like went all-in on it and oh by the way you gave up your [ __ ] childhood to do it like everybody thinks I'm so lucky and I'm like you're lucky you went to high school parties yeah I [ __ ] worked I went home 75% of my weekends during my college career taking Amtrak not even [ __ ] Axela no [ __ ] first-class [ __ ] Amtrak shooting a [ __ ] sandwich which I kind of loved and I missed that sandwich get into New York not even New York which would be fun [ __ ] Woodbridge New Jersey train station at like eight o'clock my dad would pick me up we drive home and then I would wake up at 6:30 in the morning and work in the liquor store on Saturday and then leave back to Boston on Sunday and now I'm lucky it's hard to think you're lucky when you [ __ ] eat [ __ ] when nobody else is eating [ __ ] if you look at the current state of social media you would think that 98% of the time in entrepreneurship it's sunny and rosy and fun when reality it's the reverse I mean the reality is entrepreneurship is extremely lonely the reality is most people spend a lot of their times day in and day out in dark clouds not sunshine it is you know I always say I even make jokes when I enter back into the country that used to say occupation there's been times when I've written firefighter I wake up and expect texts of negative things like when you own your own business everything is your own fault everything the business is struggling with is your fault and you are basically in the business of putting out negative fires anticipating negativity getting prepared for clouds to come over like you're basically always looking for shelter and umbrellas and rain boots you are living in that and I think that something I make fun of a lot which is you know swans in pools in the Hamptons and I think if swans represent fake entrepreneurship I literally think that worms and frogs represent real entrepreneurship to me because I literally think about like who comes out when it rains a lot in Jersey as a kid I would see frogs and worms more often after rainstorms are during rainstorms and I feel like those animals represent entrepreneurship dramatically more then that [ __ ] blown up Swan in a fake environment during a fluffy economy look we're all trying to achieve and enjoy the sunshine and the prosperity is of it all but the reality is disproportionately our time is spent in navigating or anticipating dark clouds all right we have the Gulf a legend right here so Gary what would you sell these young athletes on when they want to aspire to be something and get the next look first of all realize how ridiculously impossible it is I think the biggest issue that most young athletes have is they don't realize the math 0. 01% make it so I think one it's not about like be practical and have a plan B I don't believe in that necessarily either it's just that really be thoughtful about how much extra work it takes like if you're not in the gym somebody else is max here's the best

advice live your [ __ ] life and tune out everybody else everybody out here are so [ __ ] worried about everybody else's opinion that you're all full of [ __ ] on social media PR in yourself when in reality have you got a lot of real [ __ ] going on your head so stop [ __ ] fronting and start living you're valuing other people's opinions about your else it's a scarlet letter the reason I'm always comfortable I lose all the time I just don't care what your comment is about my loss ii don't care about other people's opinions like your mom your dad your friends your homies social media people you told you were gonna be successful ii don't care about anybody's opinion second that self-doubt is ghost because it has no value because i'm just playing you know I think that there's a deep inherent understanding in my mind that there's only one at-bat and I don't want to leave anything on the table most people don't want to work most people didn't find what they love most people don't have enormous ambition and most people prefer to you to stop because it makes them insecure while you keep winning there's no greater gift in life than to have the people you love be happy and healthy the second biggest gift in life is to [ __ ] love what you do so much that you only want to work people struggle with contextualizing time 28 20 years old I was in the liquor store that's holding this event tonight in the basement packages I worked every day I just was patients are like the biggest thing is like what do you look it's contextualizing patients the way to get most happy is to be held accountable for everything what do you want everybody from 68 year old to like the youngest person here we all can have four years of not producing a whole lot and still have time to do shows like I get so pumped when people start finally quantifying how old they really are I think you go out here 45 years old like thinking it's over like really 40 more years but that's the best part of entrepreneurship like it's just in perpetuity people always ask you stuff how do you even have the how do you have that answer for everything they ask you because there's only like seven answers thank you you're welcome and somewhere along the line I realize I had something to give like I'm kind of like good and I have an abundance of energy and like thoughts and like I'm thrilled to feed it obviously feeds me I like the attention and the positive reinforcement and whatever else it may be it just feels better like I love to communicate and I also look you know to me to be very frank the thing that's really brought me a lot of energy is being able to get through to fifteen to twenty five-year-old guys because they think I'm cool to then push to them the propaganda of kindness and patience and hide work and empathy and caring I'm not sure in the world you know this will make sense to you based on what I've been talking about tonight in a world where I know when you have the right thing squeeze it hard I may never have another time in my career because of what's happening on YouTube and Instagram with me to effect what a lot of fifteen to twenty five-year-old guys think is the right thing to do and I feel an enormous sense of responsibility that I've been able to like they are the hardest group to get through so I feel a huge responsibility right now and I don't know if I'll ever have a moment again where they're listening at this scale and I'm very energized right now because I know I'm making things I'm putting things on a pedestal like patients you know like and so I'm really invigorated so we did this a few weeks back we have 1500 people watching us live on Facebook oh yeah and across platforms 50 other people live watches open a 1954 boner Nickelback what's great is I always get nervous that you're gonna get [ __ ] and no one cares they're like there's the [ __ ] thrill the hostage hey Gary what's going on bud 86 baby altoon I know the rice is what people want but I want Alton let's down-tuned let's do it all right here we go we're here at a nice restaurant Haiti sherry be 86 Bella this is by the way Gary this is our first ever live image break on vacation borrow less but borrows the gum am I allowed to eat this come course you are I'm gonna do it this is what now 86 get set all right Mike

quick all right thousand-yard Club great we still love the thousand-yard Club penny easily have solid safety but he made the Hall of Fame uh-huh Greg Coleman the punter I don't remember him at all Brian Holloway all-pro Patriot that's a problem for me by the way I've swallowed the gum just if there's any confusion these are really off Saturn Bob yes of course there's all yours we have you here how good is that so this to me is like a solid psee it's a little bit off-center Garrett but if it was centered better Tommy so it's [ __ ] yes exactly that's a nice card Alice Valentine all right look how [ __ ] up this oh wow sit company nice being upgraded yeah we'll see that so we're gonna do gyarah we're gonna grade these and you're gonna give them out at some point in the future to any one of your many fans what is going to go down at the national in Chicago this year I'm so excited I'm coming guns ablaze all I'm come here where I'm out of control for four days I'm gonna do crazy [ __ ] I'm gonna like Drake there I'm gonna like try to break the place brother Derek pleasure right