The Fastest Way to Achieve Happiness and Gain Control of Your Life

you know what the best way to solve disappointment is what success the reality is this there was a couple themes and they are that excited me hey I have a very big thesis that if you are a Jordan and LeBron fan you also highly are likely to be lazy which you admitted in there which excites the [ __ ] out of me I think you need to fall in love with the process of the grind versus the anxiousness of getting there like the celebrating is not the fun part the process of getting there is you don't love the process I'm about to [ __ ] with everybody's heads really quick here the reason I love people who stick with their towns teams is the journey to finally get good is so much more intoxicating than being good the reality is you've got to fall in love with the [ __ ] the people who never get lazy sometimes are obsessed with the process of what they're up to I have never ever gotten lazy sometimes because I've been addicted to everything I've done post school I got lazy all the time in school because I hated it so you get to major decisions you know this is children of immigrants we have two major decisions who we love and what we choose to do I'll say that again who we love ie who you marry that's a big deal in our community and what you do at 18 the majority of my American friends yes you're free to do whatever you're literally forced to move out of the house so those two I understand okay I understand we are property of our fathers I am property of not doing that but you know I mean there was a big fight to be right this is who I'm marrying and this is what I'm choosing to do it was a fight because immigrant parents are like no I own you [ __ ] you talking about your shoes I own you let me do what I want my totally this is my thing though you're too big battles are those two bad battles don't worry about the money don't worry about all that stuff you have do those two things on your own terms and you got an air mattress it if you really love it otherwise you're a fair-weather foam van that's the way it's gonna or actually by the way or it might be like that wasn't your destiny that what you wasn't really what you wanted to do anyways but don't get into some risks that you don't want to do and don't um pursue engineering or whatever because they're forcing you to make all those decisions on your own terms neither a better or worse you know what the best way to solve disappointment is what success right like I have a funny thing that yes so like but here's the funny part you're in the first quarter and you think the game's over it was not fun for me every time my parents disagreed I live the same life like it's the same game just a different skin tone I feel like I get it but the reality is like [ __ ] you dad like that's real now I highly recommend you say dad I love you with all my heart and I know for a fact everything coming out of your mouth is what you want for me and it's how you see it but pops you did your [ __ ] let me do mine let's postgame this in 30 years then we can judge you can literally win at 42 and then be like told you either go to the wedding and grandma and grant aunt and great-aunt are [ __ ] on you and you either hear that and say I can't wait to stick it down your [ __ ] throat in 2029 or you say woe is me this blows I like the first one and I think it's an interesting debate of how they're actually the same and how you train yourself to think is an interesting thing twenty eighths of fun a year to me 27:28 like I'm reading a lot of content this 28 27 29 like and 30 33 like this kind of interesting age group where like people make this funny switch when they turn 27 and think that are old when they're obnoxiously young that comes from sure so 18 you leave you have independence from 18 to 30 really right around 30 people are getting married in here kids yeah so you're entering that we have life like what am i doing yeah I get it no so alright the songs that I planted have they manifested I get it this is my advice for artists the thing with artists is you do this the rest of your life percent that's the crazy part like Dave I agree was doing comedy until he died yep in his 80s that's right that's the game same with filmmakers sane old entrepreneur yeah it's why I feel bad for athletes right I used to think it was the best right like James Harden's gonna be done at 36 forever he was mentally I mean what we don't talk about go show me all the brown kids all the Russian kids that are 60 and 80 with their parents I know the 60 and 80 year old relationships that are broken cuz the six-year-old followed the 80 year old and they've had 35 years of [ __ ] relationship because they didn't marry that girl right because they didn't try that thing and so I think the short-term pain of a band-aid rip yeah versus cancer that happens in the back

half of every one of these people's lives is an important conversation that isn't being debated enough you