Give More Than You Get

- [Man] Hey Gary. You talk a lot about 51-49. - Yeah. - Giving more than you're getting. For the longest time, I did not do that. - [Gary] Yes. - And do you have any advice on beside just-- - [Gary] Have you started? - Have I started? - When you said for the longest time I did not do that, does that, were you alluding to you started doing a little bit of that or you're thinking about doing it? - Yes, for a while now I've been giving more than I'm getting-- - And what's happening? - It's a lot better. The question is do you have any tips in speeding that process up? - Nope. (laughter) - [Man] Just patience. Alright, thanks, man. 'Preciate it. - But you know it's cool, right? Of course, dude, 'cause it's the right thing. You seem pretty fit. You have any advice on how to get fucking abs in one day? (laughter) That's actually, you know, it's funny I made one video, I'm about to get really, I'm about to really go hard at the fitness industry. The contradiction between the business and the actual skills to get into shape, they talk nothing about tried and true like eat well, workout every day and results happen. But then on the business side they're like, "Alright, what's the fucking speed up mechanism? " It's just patience and it's by the way, you know what pisses me off about this conversation in a different level, you're young. How old are you? (laughter) If you fucking were patient as shit for the next 14 years you'd be my age. Patience. And again, I did it. From 20 to 30, I built a business from $3 to $65 million and I was paying myself $47,000 a year. That's real patience. It was a room of guys, in your 20s and 30s where that money, where I could paid myself a million a year, where that money is the leverage to do things that makes us want what we have which is girls and friends and fun, I was the singular most patient. Because I knew every dollar that I would have taken out to go to Vegas and have a fun time was a dollar I wasn't putting into my business to make more later. And I was like, I'm 20. I'll be 30. Right? But I had to punt certain things and maybe even too much in hindsight. Maybe a couple of trips to Vegas would have done me some good. But, dude, you're 26. By the way, this is the only, the second you make it go faster, the second you go 49-51 is the second it stops coming in. (hip hop music)