Who Are You Scared of Letting Down? | Gary Vaynerchuk

great want to take a selfie real quick yes I was actually hold on everyone don't edit dck got it all right you got it how's my FR you look amazing thank you oh you did it you really know what you're doing love it all right um tell everybody tell vayer Nation who you are hi vayer Nation I'm Ali decastro Miss Ali D on Twitter um so my question is I'm actually really glad I'm asking it oneon-one and not in front of the audience and now that it's being filmed audience is way Huger so way more huge so um I have a job that I absolutely love actually work for Remax of New Jersey you spoke for us pretty much right before I got hired so I just missed you um I love my job I love what I do um I do social media and graphic design I work with our SEO company we develop content and of course I want to get into doing my own thing doing my own blog starting my own hustle and I have this and I know it stems from a fear of failure but I have this really hard time I get like crippled when it comes to like executing and I know you're probably just going to be like just do it them go for it do your thing and I know but I just need toar it like I need you to look me in my face and tell me what I do you want it yes I do and so literally you're just scared to fail uh I mean if you want to go deep with me I'll go deep it's who are you scared to fail in front of is he your mom is he your best friend is he your sister that's the only thing that holds people back something happened to me like everybody thinks like oh I'm so nice look at what I'm doing right now truth is I don't give a about anybody else's opinion so rawly that I'm never scared because if I fail and people like see ha I'm like I don't even it doesn't even register it doesn't in the same way when people are like you changed my life you're the best I'm able to be grounded because it also doesn't it you know I'm kind of in that middle zone right like not too high not too low which would confuse people based on my energy but I equally care about every comment in the YouTube section of this episode I'm going to read them but if somebody says you blow and like this format stinks and you should let drock edit you know that's going to be okay like and so if you want to get deep with me I know for fact that you're because you've already given it to me that it's the feel fear of Fe the fear of failure now the question becomes to whom and what I would do is and you don't have to share that with the world I'd go talk to that person up front the best practical advice I've ever given in this scenario and it works over and over is you go and you sit down with Dad and say or Johnny or your boyfriend or your sister or your girlfriend I don't care who it is right you sit down you look them in the face and say I'm about to do this and the only reason I haven't done it for the last year is I don't want to let you down because entrepreneurship is a crapshoot and I'm not sure if I'm gonna win but long term I'm gonna win and I just need to make sure if I fail on this step that your response to me doesn't crush me to never let me have a second at that cuz that's what it is okay right yes that's it all right cool you got oh crap wait subscribe I need subscriptions because I can't push this many right hooks in Social