The Hidden Cost of INFJ People-Pleasing

Over time, that self- neglect accumulates like a debt. Externally, you appear agreeable and accommodating. The easygoing friend, the reliable co-worker, the partner who never complains. Internally, though, resentment quietly builds interest on that debt. You feel exhausted from always saying yes, anxious from constantly monitoring others moods, and perhaps a bit invisible. Because who's monitoring your mood? Certainly not the people you never let see it.