What do men mean when they say this?

Men, what do you all mean when you guys say the family is important to you? Then you proceed to make multiple babies with multiple women. And the only time you show up to see your babies will be on weekends. You don't know your baby's middle name. You don't know their birthdays. best friends. You don't know their shoe sizes. You don't know anything about them. You don't know about their allergies. Nothing. If family is important to you, what is making you create multiple babies with multiple women? Are you collecting babies like toy cars or children? Because you guys be saying family is important to you and some of you are not even active fathers. Some of you act like your fathers on reserve or on the bench. Some of you actually act like you don't remember that you have children. Weekend daddies, reserve daddies. What's going on?