He asks how much something costs…you say $150, and he sends $100. Do you correct it?

Should you correct a gesture? So, if you're with someone, you going to get a oil change. Oil change is $150. They only give you a hundred. You didn't ask for the money. Um, it. Uh, but they gave you a half gesture. So, you — did you tell him how much these things cost? — Yeah. If he'll ask, he'll be like, "Hey, how much is the oil change? " — And you'll say 150. And he'll send you 100. — Yeah. — Now, that's crazy. Are you married? — Um, about to be. — So, what's the problem? You already signed up. — I didn't — I am appreciative of his gesture because he didn't have to do it. — So why is the correction with not with your acceptance but with his action? — Damn. — That's good. — But I have an issue with a man that I'm telling is $150 and he's giving me a hundred. So now I'm thinking about your leadership. other ways that you're going to short me. Now I'm thinking about how you also going to be frugal and petty and penny pinch in other departments, right? And so it's it may not be a heart wound, right? This is just baseline reciprocity. Why is it that I'm showing up for you fully, but you feel a need to give me a hundred on 150? You're literally telling him the price and he's giving you a portion of it. So I want to know where's the rest of it, baby? Because when you in my household, you're going to leave my household, right? and you're going to provide a covenant for me and you want me to respect you and lead right be submissive. Where is my other $50? — Thank you. — Period. Thank you. — Hey, hold on. Hold on. For all the brothers, if you ain't going to pay the whole thing, don't ask how much it — JUST cost. And I'm imagining he got it. — Yeah. Oh, yeah. He got — He got it. And so the fact of the matter that he's only sending you a hundred is crazy, Mike. That crazy. — Yes, it is. What am I saving for wife then? If — you going to go there, — we got an established black man who loves you enough to put a ring on it and says, "You know what? We going to start you off with the 65%. " Because I need to incentivize you to get to the promised land. Good point. Now, once we're married, because I'm taking you in now, baby, you upgraded. How foolish of it is me and men like me to tell other men that it is okay to fully provide for a woman that hasn't said yes to you as wife. What am I doing? I got daughters that need tuition. I got parents that need care. I got to save for my own health insurance mostly. So I, as a black man who knows how hard it is to make a dollar, advise any other man to pay 100% of anything for a woman. And guess what? She said yes anyway.