Should You Confess Your Fetish To Your Partner

Should I tell my partner about my kinks even though it might disgust them? I would not. So, this is the other thing. Should I do this? Yes or no? Not the right way to do it. You should test the waters. You know, we have a video where I say like you shouldn't confess your feelings. And the reason that confessing your feelings doesn't work is because this person is at zero feeling, you're at 100 feeling. The gap between that is huge. It's a lot for someone to take. Right? If we look at how relationships evolve, they're at zero, you're at 20. Like, hey, I'm kind of into you a little bit. As you guys flirt, they move to 10, you move to 30. Flirt a little bit more. old hands. They moved to 20, you moved to 40. Hey, I really want to take you out. Now you're jumping to 60. But they're already at 20 or 30. So they're willing to meet you there. Whereas if you I've been in love with you for a hundred years, for lifetimes, love me back. I will show you the world. I'll do this. I will do that. And there's so many women like, you know, men will show up and they'll be like, I will treat you like a queen. princess. I will take you everywhere. I will do all this for you. And like so many women I've worked with are like, that's a huge turnoff. Someone's trying to be controlling. They're trying to be manipulative. They're trying to love bomb me. Dudes think that they're offering the world, which they are, but it turns people off in a weird way. So, you want to match people's emotional energy. That's at the top of the list. So, should you reveal, confess your fetish? Maybe not 100%. Right? Break your fetish up into six chunks and then share the first bit and see how they respond. Once again, ask them, "Hey, is there anything that you'd like to try? " Yeah. Don't come on too strong. That's the problem with too strong is that it's about it's not about empathic connection.